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Hi, i am researching for our project and i need to know your opinions about yaoi and fujoshis. I need all of your sides, from the discriminated boys or fujoshis who defend themselves. I am in desperate need of help. People are saying fujoshis and fudanshis are toxic and harmful(I AM NOT STARTING FANDOM WARS) and i need to know the sides of those discriminated by the fujoshis and fudanshis and the sides of the fujoshis that are constantly discriminated by people saying you are fetishizing gay people. Please please please reply

I cant even stand reading a novel. I have the attention span of a 5 year old. Anyone got any experience to share? (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

I saw this question about wanting to learn languages, and it hasn't been updated for awhile, so why not start a new group to learn? I mainly wanna learn Japanese, and maybe korean. If you're interested, hmu on insta @unequivocallydumb
Idk how we'd learn, but hey we'll figure it out together!

Anyone else buy animal crossing and now lockdown restrictions are reducing. You don’t play it daily anymore??

When i was in grade school, i remember not being well liked because i was so meddlesome lol. And i remember i wanted to change myself so i could be well liked and I've started doing that since i was in middle school. Since then, i've been surpressing myself from getting over excited, trying to act cool, never stating my opinion, and basically not saying or doing anything that could offend others. And now i became the most unnoticeable person lol. No one knows how im really like, not even my close friends. And when people describe me to others, they said that im a very nice person that doesnt get involved in any trouble. Oof. But i enjoyed being alone like this. Anyone here have similar experiences?

i saw someone ask the biggest turn off so imma just ask the opposite
(I don't know if someone asked this already, if yes please enlighten me so that I can delete this)

im currently 19 and I haven't fallen in love with someone not even a crush and I feel weird because I feel like im the only like this family and friends always ask me why I dont have any bf and when I told them im not interested on those they always look at me weirdly and I feel a little Hurt sometimes I just can't force myself to like someone romantically

I though oh maybe im just a lesbian and I actually like girls and not guys but I always see pretty girl and still nothing even handsome guys still not feeling anything

Just curious. Mine is INFP 4w5 469 so/sx.

Feel free to add any other results from other personality tests.

A few things to discuss:
- Were the results accurate? What would you say is inaccurate?
- What have you learned about yourself regarding the results?
- How could you use the information provided to your advantage?
- Of all the personality tests you've taken, which is the most accurate/reliable?

Even though I believe that everyone is a unique and valuable individual, we all share a few characteristics in common that we might've not even noticed in ourselves. So, I'm curious to know your experiences and thoughts with taking personality tests and the sort.

I await your answers! xoxo

I don't usually ask shit like this so here I go. Staying in quarantine and all has brought up some lost memories. So I remembered an incident from 2 years ago. I was watching this hentai with some actual s t o r y and I got kinda turned on from this girl and her moaning. Pretty sad right? I mean, she was 2D. But wait a second, she's 2D right? So is it gay?

TL;DR: Am I gay if I'm attracted to a 2D girl?

hey so like this may or may not be tmi but like i naturally as a kid had like arm hair and leg hair, etc but like not armpit hair or down there hair (well like duh..i was a child, not now obv) but then puberty came and i eventually grew armpit hair and down there hair but like does anyone else question why tho?? like i get that it is a sign of sexual maturity and to trap bacteria from getting in ur inner sensitive parts but like what abt when i was like younger and had no hair, what kept the bacteria from entering?? anyways i usually just shave my armpit hair off like monthly and i gave up on shaving down there..and just trim when its too long for my liking. i solely do this not because i want to feel hygienic because u can have body hair and still be hygienic but i find it annoying for some reason..i stretched this topic out wayyy to much so srry for that

ik im probably going to start a fight but i'd like to hear ur thoughts. if ur just going to come in and say 'no, yaoi is / is not fetishization, period' and then not provide any reasons to your claim then wtf was the purpose of answering.

Hi,I'd love to have some fujoshi friends so we can talk about yaoi stuffs and recommend each other some (yaoi,shoujo...)manga.
There is my insta@lo_lissakhi
So let's be friends(◍•ᴗ•◍)

Fujoshi is another word for rotten girls Japanese term for female fans of manga, anime and novels that feature romantic relationships between men. As I Fujoshi I would ship fictional characters or famous kpop people. So when people around saying that all Fujoshis fantasize about gay men's that's totally wrong. I never in my life ship a gay person. I think most people are thinking that when Fujoshi see a gay couple they suddenly think it's the hot thing ever. Wrong. That only works if they are famous or handsome. My ship consider of straight fictional characters such as Naruto x Sasuke and DekuxTodoroki. I never in my life ship a gay person ever. So I find very disrespect when a person saying all Fujoshis like to ship gay people. Most Fujoshis shipping are considered of shipping straight handsome men's together. The overwhelming majority―up to 80%―of yaoi fans and creators are female, most of them heterosexual. There is a small male readership, who are referred to as fudanshi ('rotten boy'). BL have existed since the 1970s, the conception of a particular type of women, the fujoshi, associated with BL appeared in the early 2000s on 2-chan, a popular messaging board website in Japan. It is thought that the first appearance of the word, on the online message board 2channel, was used to refer to people who like to imagine or "ship" male-on-male romantic and sexual relationships between fictional characters, celebrities. So people are saying that all Fujoshis are fantasize about gay. That's wrong and false information not all Fujoshis do that's, please don't go around saying all Fujoshis do that. Most shipping is considered of straight anime/ Manga men's or famous people. I am sorry I just find it disrespect when people think all Fujoshis ship gay people. I could care less about a straight or gay people. I my ship are only people form anime. I don't ship people in real unless they are kpop artist. So don't around using the term "ALL FUJOSHIS ". I respect people and it's dead ass boring Shipping in real life.

This goes for everyone: Stop categorizing mfs by their sexuality or preferences. Its weird, stupid, and wrong.

Onto my actual post:
I get so tired of seeing shit like " can all the straights get off this website? " Said person receives backlash, and they usually respond with a very long list of crimes against the LGBTQ+ community, and a rant of how straights will and have never been oppressed (for their sexuality, cause we all know thats not true *cough* Great Britain *cough*)

Now, I don't see the problem with the crime list. (as in, theres nothing thats good about it and i understand that those things have happened repeatedly and it is horrible)

I see the problem, that certain members of the community constantly attempt to victimize themselves when things like this are brought to their attention by straights. Especially when there are actual people who actually fall victim to things like this, on a DAILY BASIS. Dont get me wrong here: im not saying it didn't happen. Im saying that it is horrible that certain members of the community attempt to try and make themselves feel victim, in response to " straights " protecting themselves against seemingly heterophobic comments, and then others being proud of being heterophobic.

And not to mention when others make heterophobic jokes, straights defend themselves but gays come and attack them bc but apparently straights have no right to be angry because its a joke and straights have never been oppressed. But making a stupid and idiotic joke like that is not going to help a singe person. Im not asking for anyone to agree with me or anything, im just saying that maybe things like this should stop.

-remember to stay respectful plz! Cause I will respond to your comment in the same tone you responded to mine (●'◡'●)ﾉ

Nothing much, just bored and kinda curious as to what others may find attractive about a person. Any characteristics/personalities will do! (=・ω・=)

Idk about yall, but I find it hotter, rather than the seme being the older one with experience with women or in sex basically, I like the uke the mature, but submissive one, and to be either that way, or have no experience, and then there comes the young and naughty seme, who gives him that experience surprising the uke with how good he is at this for his age or smthing ^ ^ What yall think.. also anyone know a manga with an older uke you could recommend for me?

Is it possible for me to get taller? Im a 150cm teenager almost 17 years old. Im pretty self concious about it. I already looked it up on google (quora) and it says that girls stop growing at the age of 16 lol. If i do exercises to get taller now, will it make any difference at all? Just want to ask someone here with experience or knowledge about this stuff.

Also, sorry for posting this under "give life advice". I cant find any topic about height.

What is the best starbucks coffee in their menu in your opinion?

I'm 167cm and 65kg, my goal is to reach 50-55kg first but everytime i try to lose weight i always get unmotivated to exercise, I try to get motivated to exercise but everytime i do it i always failed and do the "I'll do it next time" thingy. Also I'm asian and my weight is already considered fat here, the ideal weight for 167cm is 45-50kg. I can do the healthy eating but exercise... i always failed at it. Can someone tell me how to get motivated or is that something i should just deal it with myself

Since quarantine has started my dreams have been much more vivid and i can remember them. I few months back there was this dream i had and still remember it to this day. So in the dream i woke up in a hotel with Anna and Elsa. NOTE: this was not a wet dream, we just woke up fully clothed (idk why ┗( T﹏T )┛). Meanwhile, in the lobby of the hotel Oprah Winfrey was making her way up to our room. Elsa,Anna and i started to run down the hallways of the hotel. why you ask...I don't know how but i knew why Oprah was there...to kill us. Elsa used a powers to defend us while Anna and i escaped. so what im asking is does anyone know wut this dream could mean?