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so i saw this one post about them shipping kpop idols so i want to ask something:
1) which groups do you stan? is shipping normal in your fandom?
2) what do you think about people shipping kpop idols?

OK tbh I don't really have any friends to talk about kpop to (apart from my friend who is sick of me fangirling over boys and all sorts) and really want a person to talk to about kpop and fangirl over other stuff maybe? I'd say I'm interesting and would listen to everything you have to say lol :) but if anyone's interested drop your Instagram?

After reading that post about fujoshis, I can't stop thinking about it.
I mean the girl contradicted herself a lot and all of that, but some answers had me appalled like what???

Do you guys really think is healthy shipping celebs/idols?

I answered someone why I think is very problematic, giving this example:

Is a big problem because fans don't know how to stop their obsession with shipping, take One Direction for an example, Harry and Louis were (and still are) shipped a lot, to the point that when they had girlfriends their shippers would attack the girl everywhere, on the social media and in real life, when Louis had a child, they would theorize that is was a fake kid and all of that, those shippers ruined their friendship a lot, yes they are friends but it's just not the same thing. With kpop idols is the absolute same, yes they are selling a character, but the character doesn't include a bf/gf, this shipping thing comes straight from the fans heads and they delude themselves with their own illusion, so yes, shipping celebs is a big problem because they are REAL, shipping can and will destroy their relationships and friendships, all because of some fans who can't separate wishful thinking from reality.

Also: is not really the idol that is selling a character, is their entertainment company which means they are forced to sell this character and sell all those fanservice 'bromance' y'all like to see, do you guys still think is a healthy thing?

Really want your guys opinion on this.

Hey, We made this discord server in order to meet new people and interact with and we'll be happy if you join.
We are nice and like Yaoi, we call talk about anything tbh, All ages are welcome Don't feel Shy
Join or we'll find u in real life
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Hola humans I have question do people listen while reading manga or playing games or doing art. I usually listen to music while doing art cuz it set the mood for me and while playing minecraft cuz the sounds of blocks sometimes irritates me so do u people listen to music while doing something???

The way I found it was actually when I saw some people talking on Tumblr talking about Killing Stalking (yes, that's the first yaoi I've ever read), and so I searched it up and found this website.

Hi, i am researching for our project and i need to know your opinions about yaoi and fujoshis. I need all of your sides, from the discriminated boys or fujoshis who defend themselves. I am in desperate need of help. People are saying fujoshis and fudanshis are toxic and harmful(I AM NOT STARTING FANDOM WARS) and i need to know the sides of those discriminated by the fujoshis and fudanshis and the sides of the fujoshis that are constantly discriminated by people saying you are fetishizing gay people. Please please please reply

I cant even stand reading a novel. I have the attention span of a 5 year old. Anyone got any experience to share? (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

I saw this question about wanting to learn languages, and it hasn't been updated for awhile, so why not start a new group to learn? I mainly wanna learn Japanese, and maybe korean. If you're interested, hmu on insta @unequivocallydumb
Idk how we'd learn, but hey we'll figure it out together!

Anyone else buy animal crossing and now lockdown restrictions are reducing. You don’t play it daily anymore??

When i was in grade school, i remember not being well liked because i was so meddlesome lol. And i remember i wanted to change myself so i could be well liked and I've started doing that since i was in middle school. Since then, i've been surpressing myself from getting over excited, trying to act cool, never stating my opinion, and basically not saying or doing anything that could offend others. And now i became the most unnoticeable person lol. No one knows how im really like, not even my close friends. And when people describe me to others, they said that im a very nice person that doesnt get involved in any trouble. Oof. But i enjoyed being alone like this. Anyone here have similar experiences?

i saw someone ask the biggest turn off so imma just ask the opposite
(I don't know if someone asked this already, if yes please enlighten me so that I can delete this)

im currently 19 and I haven't fallen in love with someone not even a crush and I feel weird because I feel like im the only like this family and friends always ask me why I dont have any bf and when I told them im not interested on those they always look at me weirdly and I feel a little Hurt sometimes I just can't force myself to like someone romantically

I though oh maybe im just a lesbian and I actually like girls and not guys but I always see pretty girl and still nothing even handsome guys still not feeling anything

Just curious. Mine is INFP 4w5 469 so/sx.

Feel free to add any other results from other personality tests.

A few things to discuss:
- Were the results accurate? What would you say is inaccurate?
- What have you learned about yourself regarding the results?
- How could you use the information provided to your advantage?
- Of all the personality tests you've taken, which is the most accurate/reliable?

Even though I believe that everyone is a unique and valuable individual, we all share a few characteristics in common that we might've not even noticed in ourselves. So, I'm curious to know your experiences and thoughts with taking personality tests and the sort.

I await your answers! xoxo

I don't usually ask shit like this so here I go. Staying in quarantine and all has brought up some lost memories. So I remembered an incident from 2 years ago. I was watching this hentai with some actual s t o r y and I got kinda turned on from this girl and her moaning. Pretty sad right? I mean, she was 2D. But wait a second, she's 2D right? So is it gay?

TL;DR: Am I gay if I'm attracted to a 2D girl?

hey so like this may or may not be tmi but like i naturally as a kid had like arm hair and leg hair, etc but like not armpit hair or down there hair (well like duh..i was a child, not now obv) but then puberty came and i eventually grew armpit hair and down there hair but like does anyone else question why tho?? like i get that it is a sign of sexual maturity and to trap bacteria from getting in ur inner sensitive parts but like what abt when i was like younger and had no hair, what kept the bacteria from entering?? anyways i usually just shave my armpit hair off like monthly and i gave up on shaving down there..and just trim when its too long for my liking. i solely do this not because i want to feel hygienic because u can have body hair and still be hygienic but i find it annoying for some reason..i stretched this topic out wayyy to much so srry for that

ik im probably going to start a fight but i'd like to hear ur thoughts. if ur just going to come in and say 'no, yaoi is / is not fetishization, period' and then not provide any reasons to your claim then wtf was the purpose of answering.

Hi,I'd love to have some fujoshi friends so we can talk about yaoi stuffs and recommend each other some (yaoi,shoujo...)manga.
There is my insta@lo_lissakhi
So let's be friends(◍•ᴗ•◍)

Fujoshi is another word for rotten girls Japanese term for female fans of manga, anime and novels that feature romantic relationships between men. As I Fujoshi I would ship fictional characters or famous kpop people. So when people around saying that all Fujoshis fantasize about gay men's that's totally wrong. I never in my life ship a gay person. I think most people are thinking that when Fujoshi see a gay couple they suddenly think it's the hot thing ever. Wrong. That only works if they are famous or handsome. My ship consider of straight fictional characters such as Naruto x Sasuke and DekuxTodoroki. I never in my life ship a gay person ever. So I find very disrespect when a person saying all Fujoshis like to ship gay people. Most Fujoshis shipping are considered of shipping straight handsome men's together. The overwhelming majority―up to 80%―of yaoi fans and creators are female, most of them heterosexual. There is a small male readership, who are referred to as fudanshi ('rotten boy'). BL have existed since the 1970s, the conception of a particular type of women, the fujoshi, associated with BL appeared in the early 2000s on 2-chan, a popular messaging board website in Japan. It is thought that the first appearance of the word, on the online message board 2channel, was used to refer to people who like to imagine or "ship" male-on-male romantic and sexual relationships between fictional characters, celebrities. So people are saying that all Fujoshis are fantasize about gay. That's wrong and false information not all Fujoshis do that's, please don't go around saying all Fujoshis do that. Most shipping is considered of straight anime/ Manga men's or famous people. I am sorry I just find it disrespect when people think all Fujoshis ship gay people. I could care less about a straight or gay people. I my ship are only people form anime. I don't ship people in real unless they are kpop artist. So don't around using the term "ALL FUJOSHIS ". I respect people and it's dead ass boring Shipping in real life.

This goes for everyone: Stop categorizing mfs by their sexuality or preferences. Its weird, stupid, and wrong.

Onto my actual post:
I get so tired of seeing shit like " can all the straights get off this website? " Said person receives backlash, and they usually respond with a very long list of crimes against the LGBTQ+ community, and a rant of how straights will and have never been oppressed (for their sexuality, cause we all know thats not true *cough* Great Britain *cough*)

Now, I don't see the problem with the crime list. (as in, theres nothing thats good about it and i understand that those things have happened repeatedly and it is horrible)

I see the problem, that certain members of the community constantly attempt to victimize themselves when things like this are brought to their attention by straights. Especially when there are actual people who actually fall victim to things like this, on a DAILY BASIS. Dont get me wrong here: im not saying it didn't happen. Im saying that it is horrible that certain members of the community attempt to try and make themselves feel victim, in response to " straights " protecting themselves against seemingly heterophobic comments, and then others being proud of being heterophobic.

And not to mention when others make heterophobic jokes, straights defend themselves but gays come and attack them bc but apparently straights have no right to be angry because its a joke and straights have never been oppressed. But making a stupid and idiotic joke like that is not going to help a singe person. Im not asking for anyone to agree with me or anything, im just saying that maybe things like this should stop.

-remember to stay respectful plz! Cause I will respond to your comment in the same tone you responded to mine (●'◡'●)ﾉ