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I swear it's on the days i am exhausted and have being doing so much exercise that i end up not being able to fall asleep. Like everything hurts and i just need peace, but my brain can't turn off. I'm stuck in a loop of my worst hits: every embarrassing thing that's ever happened, my regrets, and my anxiety about future events. It's like my body is finally still, but my brain is still running a marathon. I take melatonin too...
But since I'm here ranting, this entire week I've been faced with ultimatums that are also keeping awake. There's so many things i want to go to or do, but unfortunately if i do one thing, i can't do the other. And options are something I'm not that interested in, but i have a higher chance of getting into and will have better career benefits, or something that i'd much rather be doing, but have lower odds of getting in. It's like when you choose colleges and you can only Early Decision to one place, so do you pick the school that you're only kinda into, but you know will boost your chances and it's still a pretty good school (oh, and everyone expects you to go there anyways), or place your bets on an ivy you've been dreaming of but likely won't get into? I'm really starting to hate making life decisions
But since I'm here ranting, this entire week I've been faced with ultimatums that are also keeping awake. There's so many things i want to go to or do, but unfortunately if i do one thing, i can't do the other. And options are something I'm not that interested in, but i have a higher chance of getting into and will have better career benefits, or something that i'd much rather be doing, but have lower odds of getting in. It's like when you choose colleges and you can only Early Decision to one place, so do you pick the school that you're only kinda into, but you know will boost your chances and it's still a pretty good school (oh, and everyone expects you to go there anyways), or place your bets on an ivy you've been dreaming of but likely won't get into? I'm really starting to hate making life decisions
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My friend started acting weird. She keep making these zoophile jokes. Mostly about pigeons. She kept talking to me about pigeons like: "Hey,what if I finger a pigeon?" "I wonder where the hole is." "I wanna get pregnant and carry a pigeon's child. I wonder what the child will look like". At first it was funny bc she was telling me to imagine a pigeon with four legs and a tail but she started making it really uncomfortable. Is it a sign to cut if my friendship with her?
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And I don't mean like the 20219-2020 type of cringy, I saw a comment under a manhwa and someone said "I can't stand Greyson" and someone replied "So sit" and it's other replies just saying they were in tears laughing etc or people who are like koreaboos on here using incorrect Hangul
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I’ve had my eyebrow pierced for over a year now and it will usually stay tame for 1&2 months but get irritated and infected out of no where, I wait some days and it becomes okay again. It’s a vicious cycle . My question is, how do I get it to permanently heal because the awkward stage of a semi infected eyebrow piercing doesn’t look too cute & it acts brand new (bleeding/crusting ect) . It doesn’t look like it’s rejecting as I’ve a piercer look at it quickly when my friend was getting her lobes done and she said it’s just irritated.
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I’m a sucker for hate-to-love/enemies-to-lovers. I’m guessing it’s because my mother really dislikes me and made sure I knew this even as a kid, so that trope feels healing to my inner child. I also like OP protagonists, who still appeal to me despite (or because?) being a recovered perfectionist lol lastly I’m often drawn to stories with pining, yearning, and/or regret…. I’m still unpacking why I like that trope so much.
Curious to hear what cheesy tropes other readers enjoy and why!!
Curious to hear what cheesy tropes other readers enjoy and why!!
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Look my problem is that i believe in God but i cant stop reading yaoi and narusasu fanfic so like I’m lwk scared that heaven and hell really exist and i end up going in hell bc i read narusasu fanfic and yaoi like i believe and God but i don’t really at the same time
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Can someone help me bake cookies...I seriously can't bake them right no matter what I do, I don't have baking soda or cornstarch atm, but I have everything else.
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Hi everyone, I am the same girl who spoke about her forced marriage that will take place in a few years. I am the same girl who spoke about her forced marriage that will take place in a few years, and I would like to thank everyone for their support , i can't really go into details, and i'm not gonna lie, some answers made me really scared, forced marriage is really normalized where i live so people here don't take it seriously, but i have a plan for everything, even though i'm scared that it won't work sometimes , but my country made this plan so much easier, so i might be in a big problem if my family knew that i think this way because they see marriage as a very important thing, even when i talk about it with my friends they say " don't be like that, it's 2026 , it's not like your husband will not allow you to work" , but this is not what i mean, it's not only work, we live in a place that " don't you have a man who control you " It is a phrase used to insult a woman , it's like saying " whore " , sometimes it's better to plan and stay silent instead of standing, believe me
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I just hate when some people on this site see a manhwa or manga named step bro my cum bucket and criticize you for reading it but have roses and champagne in there already read I just think it's hypocritical and cringe
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OK so I asked my guy friend to put me on and he actually did, he told his friend to follow and text me and we actually talked a lot we clicked instantly he's so adorable he's like the male version of me and I think he's actually my soul mate. We've been sending eachother reels daily ever since and we just comment on the reels and sometimes talk about other things but that's it, it's all silly talk and reels and that friendly shit
I like him, and apparently he likes me too since everyone sees it, I've never met him cause we're in different unis but we are gonna see each other in a few days along with my other friends and like a big group. Mind you we've been talking for a month now
Let me tell you my real problem, I don't see myself dating, I don't know what it is about dating or being emotionally intimate with someone but it just icks me and makes me feel weird like I'd be talking to him and then he'd send a Pic and I'm reminded that he's real and then I panic
I don't want him to like me enough to want to date me
I like what we have now but I know it's selfish to ask to stay like this I know he might want to date me in the future but I just know my mind won't change
And the problem is that I really really like him but I don't like the idea of involving someone in my life that deeply
I know I'm the shitty one here and I feel super bad cause he's literally such a green flag and he's the perfect match for me but I feel so torn cause I don't want it to feel like I'm leading him on somehow please tell me what to do
Id want for us to stay how we are but it's selfish to, ask
I like him, and apparently he likes me too since everyone sees it, I've never met him cause we're in different unis but we are gonna see each other in a few days along with my other friends and like a big group. Mind you we've been talking for a month now
Let me tell you my real problem, I don't see myself dating, I don't know what it is about dating or being emotionally intimate with someone but it just icks me and makes me feel weird like I'd be talking to him and then he'd send a Pic and I'm reminded that he's real and then I panic
I don't want him to like me enough to want to date me
I like what we have now but I know it's selfish to ask to stay like this I know he might want to date me in the future but I just know my mind won't change
And the problem is that I really really like him but I don't like the idea of involving someone in my life that deeply
I know I'm the shitty one here and I feel super bad cause he's literally such a green flag and he's the perfect match for me but I feel so torn cause I don't want it to feel like I'm leading him on somehow please tell me what to do
Id want for us to stay how we are but it's selfish to, ask
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I have been overthinking about this for weeks now and i think i might have to come out as bi now ughh.
I have only ever gone for women and been labelling myself gay and tbh i didnt feel any attraction towards men.
Boy am i was wrong and all i needed was to talk to a man for more than a year to actually like him i think im fucked :)
I dont think ill ever tell him tho
I have only ever gone for women and been labelling myself gay and tbh i didnt feel any attraction towards men.
Boy am i was wrong and all i needed was to talk to a man for more than a year to actually like him i think im fucked :)
I dont think ill ever tell him tho
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Guys please I'm looking for a manga that I'm not really sure is a oneshot. It's about a cute, chubby girl that visits cult leader geto suguru with her mother after being harassed by curses so that he can deliver her.
Any suggestions about the name are welcome.
Any suggestions about the name are welcome.
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Guys please I'm looking for a manga that I'm not really sure is a oneshot. It's about a cute, chubby girl that visits cult leader geto suguru with her mother after being harassed by curses so that he can deliver her.
Any suggestions about the name are welcome.
Any suggestions about the name are welcome.
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ik this may sound a bit personal and this site may not be the best place to ask for advice but i need more opinions. I have a friend who I used to be very close with but recently she started acting a bit differently. She became more mean like she would criticize everything I do and make comments bout me on a daily basis. It seems rlly immature and its annoying but i can't tell if I am just being dramatic or if it is a valid reason to stop talking to her.
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In about four years, my family will marry me off to someone I don't know, and I'll have to live to clean and cook for him. I tried to enroll in the most remote university to avoid this, but they wouldn't let me. I tried to work, but they wouldn't let me. I tried to work online but i'm not allowed to have an account, what do i do , i just want to die, I have no way out; women are not allowed to live alone here, and I have no source of income or any basic knowledge that would enable me to escape.
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so i've talked to a couple of people about this but kinda got pretty vauge answers, and i don't really want to air all of my business out to people i know ifykwim.
i’m looking to change career paths, but honestly, i have no idea where to start.
i originally planned on going to college years ago, but things never really worked out.. i moved around a lot, my school transcripts got messed up along the way, and eventually i just kinda gave up on the idea. at the time (even now), i also didn’t really know what i wanted to do with my life, so i lacked the motivation to pursue anything in particular.
since then, i’ve worked a handful of different jobs, about half have been physical labor, and the other half have been customer service. at this point, i’m extremely burnt out on both. i know i don’t want to spend the rest of my working life doing either of those things, but i’m having a hard time figuring out what i would enjoy doing instead.
my mother’s husband suggested that i work for the company he’s at cause he's been pestering me saying i should “get a real man’s job.” (despite literally having experience with physical work). aside from the fact that i have absolutely no interest in that kind of work, the environment is also not something i'm comfortable with. he and the people he works with have made it pretty clear that they’re racist and homophobic, and as someone who is openly queer, that’s an absolute no for me.
unfortunately, i also live in an area where job opportunities are pretty limited, which makes figuring out a different path even harder.
so i guess what i'm really asking is what kinds of careers are out there that people actually find enjoyable or fulfilling.. and if anyone has, how'd did you figure out that they were right for you??
i'm open to remote work or in-person work, and i’m also not necessarily opposed to going back to school or getting some kind of certification if i can figure out what direction i want to go in.
the problem is that i don’t really have a specific dream career in mind. i mostly just know that i don’t want to keep doing the jobs i've been doing.
if anyone else has been in a similar position.. especially if you changed careers without knowing exactly what you wanted beforehand i’d really appreciate hearing how you figured it out and what kinds of careers i should look into or how to figure out what i might enjoy cause it seems like i don't have a lot of options..
i’m looking to change career paths, but honestly, i have no idea where to start.
i originally planned on going to college years ago, but things never really worked out.. i moved around a lot, my school transcripts got messed up along the way, and eventually i just kinda gave up on the idea. at the time (even now), i also didn’t really know what i wanted to do with my life, so i lacked the motivation to pursue anything in particular.
since then, i’ve worked a handful of different jobs, about half have been physical labor, and the other half have been customer service. at this point, i’m extremely burnt out on both. i know i don’t want to spend the rest of my working life doing either of those things, but i’m having a hard time figuring out what i would enjoy doing instead.
my mother’s husband suggested that i work for the company he’s at cause he's been pestering me saying i should “get a real man’s job.” (despite literally having experience with physical work). aside from the fact that i have absolutely no interest in that kind of work, the environment is also not something i'm comfortable with. he and the people he works with have made it pretty clear that they’re racist and homophobic, and as someone who is openly queer, that’s an absolute no for me.
unfortunately, i also live in an area where job opportunities are pretty limited, which makes figuring out a different path even harder.
so i guess what i'm really asking is what kinds of careers are out there that people actually find enjoyable or fulfilling.. and if anyone has, how'd did you figure out that they were right for you??
i'm open to remote work or in-person work, and i’m also not necessarily opposed to going back to school or getting some kind of certification if i can figure out what direction i want to go in.
the problem is that i don’t really have a specific dream career in mind. i mostly just know that i don’t want to keep doing the jobs i've been doing.
if anyone else has been in a similar position.. especially if you changed careers without knowing exactly what you wanted beforehand i’d really appreciate hearing how you figured it out and what kinds of careers i should look into or how to figure out what i might enjoy cause it seems like i don't have a lot of options..
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The questions posted here are gettin more and more personal lol
One or two seems harmless but why are some of you guys answering every tell me a little more bout yourself questions... like asking your nationality, age, language, ethnicity or country, gender, what you do for work or your year level in school.. at this point i wont be shocked if someone'll ask your government name or social media account and yall will respond, stay safe out there ydy.
One or two seems harmless but why are some of you guys answering every tell me a little more bout yourself questions... like asking your nationality, age, language, ethnicity or country, gender, what you do for work or your year level in school.. at this point i wont be shocked if someone'll ask your government name or social media account and yall will respond, stay safe out there ydy.
