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I'll admit that I'm a very emotional person, I've always been like this and I've tried to change to no avail so I'm slowly starting to accept that. However, I've always been the one confessing to my crushes and if they like me back then we sometimes date. Not once have they told me how they felt first and I ended up getting hurt and hurting them because I was and still am very honest about my feelings. I've thought to stop telling my crushes anything but I feel like my feelings overflow, like in a cliche manga, such that I can't hold my words in. Has anyone else ever felt like this as well? And also, Am I am asshole for telling someone I'm not interested in a relationship? Even though we've been friends for 3 years already, I feel like it came out of nowhere cuz I recently left a relationship with a guy who tried to change who I was. I told my friend this and he confessed as well, saying that my ex was too good for me and that he wants to cherish me. I only see him as a brother and I feel like he sees me as a tiny little bunny that he should defend and not as a girlfriend. I don't know what to do now cuz I really am not ready for another relationship but he really likes me (as he said).
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What should I do with a dear friend who left me alone in my most miserable moments?

Hello, I'm Elii. As the title says I am holding a Discord Singing Competition, no one could care but....this is my first time doing this with random people. PRIZES ; This is just for fun. But you can have a cool title (you can choose whatever title it is ^_^) Please tell me if you want to join, very much appreciated ^_^ -Elii

Hi! I’m thinking about making a new LINE group chat so I can make some new friends and just get to know other people. Anyone can join! Just drop your LINE ID below and I will add you!!

We could discuss anything,,, including yaoi and bl for those fujoshis and fudanshis out there ( ° ʖ °)

Hi guys! Were a new BL Scanlation Group still looking for members! Especially TRANSLATORS, VERY URGENT! Any position you want is welcome too! We also accept VOLUNTEERS and INDEPENDENT TRANSLATORS! (those translators that doesnt have groups)

If youre interested please dont hesitate to inform me here and I'll get back to you as soon as possible! We still have many projects on hold for now. FTS NEEDS YOU!!

A small no strings attached server! We can talk, not only about yaoi, but our personal life, school, hobbies, we can have our occasional vents, etc. Basicaly for anyone who wants a group of internet friends.

This server is for people who want to escape their boring lives! Nothing more and nothing less.

I did call this a "no strings attached" server because I want eveyone to be themselves and do anything within reason.
- You can leave at any time
- You're not obligated to do anything (reveal personal details, voice chat, video chat)
- You can share your opinions on anything (from certain yaoi and characters, to is water is wet)
- and proper grammar isnt necessary

But yeah thats really all, this post will be in affect until Sept.16.
And as much as i want everyone to be able to express themselves, sexual harassment and behavior coming from bad intentions are NOT welcomed and will be dealed with.

If your interested my discord is MIRA#4939 (=・ω・=)
I really hope we can be friends!

For a while I was thinking of getting a bearded dragon, so I was gathering up information about taking care of one. I'm just going to write down what I've gathered and you guys ( preferably with experience ) can tell me what's good and what to change :)

FOOD: Dubia roaches, every now and then superworms, crickets, kale, a bit of pepper, cabbage, celery, squash, and a wax worm for an occasional treat.

TANK: 90 - 120 cm glass tank, small ( 10 - 20 cm ) shallow water pool, climbing tree, eco friendly deco plants, UVB lights, fabric hammock, substrate bedding, thermometer, netting for roof, medium den, two/one medium rock(s), toy(s), digging box and a food dish.

TIPS: To clean the tank, make a 50/50 water & vinegar solution for cleaning the tank ( w/ soft towel or tissue ) and if shedding place in warm shallow water for 10 - 15 mins.

is it just me or do i think that a prince should be with another prince ??

fuck that princess
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Hey, I'm a pretty much a broke college student but considering how much I read manga for free I want to seriously try and support at least a few of my favorites authors. Especially BL authors because I know it is very hard for them.

For more well known manga authors I know I can buy available merch, manga volumes, or support their patreons if they have it. However for more obscure BL authors I question how legit sites like Lezhin are in actually getting money to them, or if most of the profit goes to Lezhin. I heard the authors are treated poorly and make only a small margin of the profit so I don't want to support that but at the same time I feel guilty getting their hard work for free.

Is Lezhin a good way to support them? If it is, then I will buy from there and just read here because this site has faster updates. But if it isn't then I don't want to waste my money there and I'll gladly take other suggestions.

Thanks guys.

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@missy.senpai.cosplay
Dm me to chat about fave yaoi/bl

Personally, when I know the restaurant pays their waiters/ waitresses the general minimum wage (above $8.25), then I don't tip (like California). Unless they gave great service, which is when I'll definitely tip.

But other than that, I don't see the point since they're already being paid to do their job. When I worked at an animal hospital, I was paid minimum wage ($8.25) as a vet tech. I always did my best to appease the patients/clients, and made sure they were happy and comfortable with my service. I went beyond my expected duties, which I didn't have to do and wasn't being paid extra for it. I did that to help as much as I can. I figured it was the same in restaurants.

What do you guys do?

Heeeeeeeyyy guys. So I am a webcomic artist but let's say my level is intermediate and I am looking for an artist friends who also like to read yaoi and So we can draw together or do a meme drawing! I have other artist friend but they hate yaoi. ╥﹏╥ drop your IG username and let's be friends!

Been pondering this thing for a while, but haven't voiced it anywhere, because only thinking about it makes me feel like a complete degenerate. Decided to post it here since I figured this site is filled with degenerates anyway- (sorry about that)

I’ve noticed a pattern with my BL media consumption… with both manga and drama shows. We all know about the top and bottom dynamics (or wife and husband in Asian, especially Thai bl dramas), where one part of the BL pair takes the typical “girl” role, while the other one is the masculine one. I often find myself wishing that the roles were swapped… for example in the drama “Together With Me: The Series”, I kinda wished Korn and Knock swapped roles. I have dropped many manga series because of this ^^; (The most recent one was “Hoshi to Harinezumi”)

It differs if I wished the characters swapped places entirely, personality and all, or if I just wished they swapped *cough* places in bed -
WITH DRAMAS YOU DON’T SEE ANYTHING ANYWAY BUT I WOULD JUST LIKE TO KNOW, OK, JUST FOR MY OWN SATISFACTION O _ O (that came out wrong)

But I feel really bad about it when it’s a drama series because… there are real actors, and even if these are my own personal thoughts, I feel like I am projecting a (dirty, **none of my damn business**) role onto this actor based on their appearance. Even though they don’t know about it and it’s just my thought, I feel like it’s wrong…

With manga, manhua, manhwa, I feel like it shouldn’t matter (unless it’s an important plot point), **why am I so damn picky about these things??**
It’s not that important to the story anyways, but unless everything is exactly like I want it my body just physically rejects the series and I can’t read it. I feel like it’s kinda dumb and I’m missing out on things because of this, so yeah
I don’t want to be one of those fujoshis that is “lusting after yaoi boys but doesn’t care about LGBTQ people whatsoever”, and I know the whole wife/husband, seme/uke thing is not accurate to real life. This is another reason why I feel bad about all this, because in the end “iT sHoUldN’t mAtTeR, iT’s nOt ReAl aNd hOnEstLy thE tRoPe iS kiNdA pRoBleMaTic”. I want gay people to have accurate representation in media, but I’m also a fujoshi who reads yaoi. I’M ALSO ASEXUAL, WHY AM I HERE AND WHY DO I CARE SO MUCH??

Because this is in the questions secion, I would like to hear your thoughts on this^^;
Or just, if you do this or not or if it’s just me…

I am not sure if this is the right site to ask for this. But i am overwhelmed for all the different experiencies or lifes you all have to carry and have shared with us in this app, so i was looking for someone who can emphatize with mine and feel like talking about them with me.
If anyone is struggling or have already done with the uncertainty of his/her sexuality, genre, deprivation of self care and love, a neccesity of closure that drain all your relationships, giving up your dreams for the sake of a more stable life, study a degree or get a job you do not feel passionate for etc., send me a message pls.
Dont misread please. I am not looking for a psichologist in you, i do not want an advice for my worries. I just would like to have someone who could understand my struggles and we could encourage each other to grow over this toguether.
Thank u so much (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

have a good day

I was wondering if anyone here is interested in creating a support group of small IG artists so we can share each other's art, do art trades, share art challenges and tag each others in art chains !(◕︿◕✿) I'm a very small artist and I don't have any close artsy friends on instagram to do all of that ╥﹏╥
I'll be very happy to do some mutual support, and if it's the same for you then message me on Ig : @lumi.senpai ! I'll also try to create a group chat (never done that (^^ゞ) ) !

heyy I am so fricking lonely and I want to talk about yaoi bl or anything I JUST NEED FRIENDS
if you want to be friends with other people we can maybe open a instagram or discord groupchat
PLEASE

am thinking to start a group chat about webtoon such as suddenly became a princess one day or doctor Elise and everything related to webtoon these kinda mangas to talk bc I wanted something other than yaoi/yuri , drop ur username and i’ll Add u （╹◡╹）♡