"Love isn't for you." It isn't meant the way it sounds. It means, you shouldn't love someone to satisfy your own desires. You should love your special someone to make them happy. When you focus on what you can give, rather than what you can get out of love, the reward is far greater than you could ever imagine. I've seen countless relationships fai...... 4 reply
i suppose you're talking about romantic love.
love is something interesting, i like to read experiences of people falling in love and having happy lifes or the love itself artistically represented (for example in mangas)
but here's the thing: i don't imagine myself being in love, i've never been in love to be honest. i did have my platonic crushe...... reply
Use condoms. Don't get pregnant. Don't catch or spread life changing diseases. Don't lie. Don't trust people you don't know. Shut up about your newfound and inevitably short-lived happiness. Expect disappointment. Prepare to end things with dignity and decorum. Avoid healing a broken heart by jumping to the next relationship.
And PLEASE, don't st...... reply
Hello everyone. Seems to me like we are all experiencing the "Mild-to-severely depressed overthinking individual who's objective worth eludes them because of their feelings of inadequacy and unfair harsh self judgement that stems from unresolved insecurities" ... syndrome.
You're not as bad as you think you are. You're not as superior as you beli...... 2 reply
i can say that i've always been interested in love- i love the idea of love. whether it's one-sided or not, i've always wanted to fall for someone because i never thought i would be able to until i came to terms with my sexuality.(im a lesbian) i always thought i was incapable of loving someone just because i couldn't like men. lol. :-(
i really t...... reply
I can totally relate to your point of view, but what I particularly see nowadays is people who can't be open to a romantic relationship, wants to enjoy in everyway the other but not to commit. I have the tendency to be cautious because when I really like someone I can't love halfway, so if the love isn't mutual I tend to get hurt, so most of the ti...... reply
Hmmm idk if unappealing would be the word to use for me bc I’m not exactly scared of falling in Love it’s just that me as a person I just literally couldn’t careless. Like I just feel empty and by empty I mean I didn’t feel any emotions maybe 95% of the time so I’m not sure if me actually loving somebody would even be possibe at 100% lol....... reply
Hi there,
As a woman, 12 years older, I will try to answer to most of what you have written..or at least I will try.
"When I was growing up, I used to think I would never fall in love because for me, being in love meant being weak and/or vulnerable."
Well, you are right on one point. But dont forget that there are 2 sides of one coin. While ...... reply
yeah. i like the idea of romance and i would love to be in love but idk why but whenever i feel someone likes me, i get this uncomfortable feeling. i'm not sure if it's cuz i am inexperienced that it's uncomfortable or that maybe i truly physically can't accept romance. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply
the way things are right now, with people throwing "love" around so easily, it doesn't mean much to me. I can say I love people and dislike them, and vice versa, so in that sense it is unappealing. Because it can so easily be fake or superficial. But that's not always the case, it differs person to person, love for a friend is appealing to me becau...... 2 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
