
Why would kamina be unsatisfied when his coworkers just quickly blindly accepted his proposal why would kamina be unsatisfied when makino fulfilled his every request blindly? Is it cause he wants his workaholic nature be satisfied by a challenge in interviews? Is it cause in sex he wants to be needed more challenged more wanted more... rather than docile fulfilment of his request
Why he wants people to play HARD to get

Oh, that's a plausible perspective I hadn't thought of!
I had interpreted it more in terms of when people just blindly trust in him, it means they're not sharing in the challenge and responsibility of the job/relationship. That he wanted (especially in the relationship) someone to run along side him, to say what they really think and really want, rather than to leave him leading all alone - which means he has all the support and gets to do things his way, but also has all the responsibility without ever getting their genuine feedback.
Or something roughy similar.

So in that case ...i think the comparison with a woman part was because of spontaneous sex cause women can self lubricate and stuff ...and even when gay couples are stressed and need quick sex to relax they must prepare first.
Previously i thought when he said: "if it were a woman they would have already..." meant that if it were a woman they would have already begged for more and be more demanding ( since the drawing of woman is an eager woman opening her vagina. and since makino is blindly following the wave not stating what he wants from kamina.)

I hope the uke reject his ass ...seriously what is up with people trying to be intimate with their heart closed ...are their bodies and emotions and soul so detached that they just have intimacy without a tingle of a feeling
Oh better plot twist ....I hope uke accept it out of hopeless love ..and then seme find out he is the one who is violating the rule of no affection....

Please someone explain to me...uke said to seme after hearing the separation of affection and bdsm plays that "is what they have now different? "
What does he mean ??? Did he mean is having affection in the play different or did he mean sarcastically that they are already not affectionate.
I thought uke was shocked and sad after hearing loveless relationship.
seme said : "I can have love affairs without falling in love...but he is not good at it" ...so can he or can't he????

So the seme wants the uke just to be his partner in DS relationship without involving love, this can actually happen irl. Kinda like sex friend on another level, and not romantic relationship. They won't go on date, no involvement in personal lives, no physical affection outside of the SM play, basically nothing any couple does. Many becomes a romantic couple without being in love for many reasons, this is what he's saying he can do, but he's bad at it so he doesn't want to, I think it's thanks to some trauma he has from the flashback. While the uke who actually likes him, since he have no knowledge of DS relationship, he thought that it's the same as dating, that's why he was asking what you're wondering about and gets disappointed when he heard the answer. I hope it's clear enough, sorry if I'm bad at explaining ><

What happened to minjae sohyun relationship....they just broke up after sohyun couldn't answer why he had came to see him? Honestly sohyun is portrayed having no feelings for minjae but in their sex scenes the passion is portrayed...the kissing the hug the lick ....Whether I'm such a demisexual that can't view sex and feelings separately or just people are so emotionally shut off that they can get so intimate physically with someone while their heart is completely closed to that person. It's sad and disappointing.

He couldn't answer apparently and that is why Minjae left as he realized that nothing was going to change with Sohyun. Four years is a very very long time to just love someone one sidedly without any expectations. Especially when they're good to you. I guess it was high time Minjae took a tough decision and decided to move on.

That's my problem...it is implied that sohyun doesn't have any feelings for minjae, he didn't reciprocate for 4 years...but in the sex scene the portrayal is much too passionate to be considered casual. Sohyun was aroused by Ray , he came to fulfill his desire by minjae...I could buy that if it were just a sexual release but the way he kissed minjae, his licking of minjae's semen ...the hug ..the sleeping next to each other....
Wasn't it all much too passionate for a guy who doesn't have feelings for minjae??????? Does anyone else think like that ..or is it just me ?

Even if Sohyun doesn't love Minjae, still they've been together for four years. There's no way he hasn't developed some affection for Minjae and he treats him quite well too. There's no reason you have to be cold to your partner and not kiss them just because you're not in love with them. Having sex for four years, they've probably done all kinds of shit so licking the semen, hugging and sleeping together is really nothing to be surprised about. Even fwb with a little favourable impression do these things, not to mention they've been dating for four frickin years. And as I said before, that's a very very long time.

4 years dating??? I thought they were supposed to be friends with benefits..though sohyun apparently accepted this kind of friendship on the condition of exclusivity and being monogamous friends with benefits!!! In addition to sex portrayal, That is why I can't decide whether sohyun likes him or not...friend with benefit but monogamous!!!!

In chapter 10 in minjae flashback in highschool....there was this line which said " on one condition, there's not going to be anyone else but me""" I thought sohyun said that cause the bubbles on minjae's face didn't have any edge pointing at him , and he looked kinda shocked, and technically minjae was begging sohyun to be with him ...I thought the person who lays down all conditions must be the loved one not the lover.

Why would Sohyun insist on a monogamous relationship when he doesn't even love Minjae? Minjae was desperate to be with him and suggested that it was okay if he was in it only for the sex but on a condition that he will be his only partner. That as long as there's no one else but me, that's enough for me. Those were Minjae's words. It was more of a request than a condition. And yes they started dating. They never agreed on a friends with benefits relationship. Minjae asked him out and Sohyun said yes. It doesn't matter if Sohyun wasn't in love and only agreed for the sex part. It's still dating.
What is exactly the relationship between ryu and natsuki ? Girlfriend? Sex friends? Did they have sex after their first time which ryu was drunk and didn't remember anything???if yes then ryu treats her like sister yet he has sex with her?it is annoying. Where is exactly mentioned that she is sex worker?