about get to know you
Do you have any experiences that sounds impossible or sounds like a lie? 'Cos I do, lol. For context, my brother worked as a normal salaryman there for 3 years before he suggested I study there if I wanted to.
I was a student in Mie Prefectural for 1 year and 6 months (bcs I dropped out) and somehow became an assistant club manager. There was a pair of bff's that were super hype and honestly they were the sweetest and would help with the laundry. VVVV loud and would come fetch me after class so we could go to the gym together for their practice, 10000/10. There was this tall guy that was quite popular (he was handsome ngl) and was only there to make fun of my height. V mean, doesn't help close/clean gym, overall -1000/10. If murder was legal, he'd be my first kill. The captain was hella sweet, and to this day I don't know how he hasn't gotten a love letter in his life. The others were good to me but we weren't that close.
Anyways, it was fun but v stressful. It was hard trying to learn in a foreign school in a foreign language but the experience was very memorable.
I was a student in Mie Prefectural for 1 year and 6 months (bcs I dropped out) and somehow became an assistant club manager. There was a pair of bff's that were super hype and honestly they were the sweetest and would help with the laundry. VVVV loud and would come fetch me after class so we could go to the gym together for their practice, 10000/10. There was this tall guy that was quite popular (he was handsome ngl) and was only there to make fun of my height. V mean, doesn't help close/clean gym, overall -1000/10. If murder was legal, he'd be my first kill. The captain was hella sweet, and to this day I don't know how he hasn't gotten a love letter in his life. The others were good to me but we weren't that close.
Anyways, it was fun but v stressful. It was hard trying to learn in a foreign school in a foreign language but the experience was very memorable.
about get to know you
about get to know you
22 06,2020
OH GOD, help me pls, I saw a video where a black mom say that she gets freedom in Vietnam, and I- a person who has lived in Vietnam for 8 years reply under a comment which says “I love how people in America who never leaves the us try to convince us that Vietnam doesn’t have freedom, we are COVID free and there is no death caused by cops, sounds like freedom to me” :
1) people here are extremely homophobic, their basic concept of sex, gender and sexuality is all messed up. Some person even say that homo is the third gender. Wtf
2) the internet, if you understand Vietnamese, you will notice that it is very ignorant, I saw a post say that because the person has ocd so they organize their house carefully, like WTF that is not ocd, the post even says that washing our hands too much and obsessed with getting clean is ocd, wtf
3) it IS racist, Vietnamese tend to use the n*gga sound effect as comedy, but it’s still offensive. Kids here laugh at them, and people say that it is not racist because kids just hear weird rumors and misconception about black people, WRONG, learn Vietnamese and it will be worse. People have weird rumors or accusations against black people, and it’s still racism no matter how you ask me. People may prefer white skin because of beauty standard, but it’s clearly very upsetting that people promote whitewash skin, some people don’t even have normal white skin like wtf
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1) people here are extremely homophobic, their basic concept of sex, gender and sexuality is all messed up. Some person even say that homo is the third gender. Wtf
2) the internet, if you understand Vietnamese, you will notice that it is very ignorant, I saw a post say that because the person has ocd so they organize their house carefully, like WTF that is not ocd, the post even says that washing our hands too much and obsessed with getting clean is ocd, wtf
3) it IS racist, Vietnamese tend to use the n*gga sound effect as comedy, but it’s still offensive. Kids here laugh at them, and people say that it is not racist because kids just hear weird rumors and misconception about black people, WRONG, learn Vietnamese and it will be worse. People have weird rumors or accusations against black people, and it’s still racism no matter how you ask me. People may prefer white skin because of beauty standard, but it’s clearly very upsetting that people promote whitewash skin, some people don’t even have normal white skin like wtf
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about discord server
22 06,2020
Hi all!! I have a server centered on yaoi and it's fairly active. We're fun and friendly, and the only thing we ask is that you follow the rules, that's it. Please join us, here's the link ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ https://discord.gg/Z8HE25
about bl drama recommendations
22 06,2020
Asian Drama 1: From what I can remember the plot of the story was about this very ugly girl who worked at this little shop, one day this rich, beautiful , newly wed couple come by the shop on their way to a hiking trip. They speak with the ugly girl briefly and then go about their day, unfortunately there is a terrible accident. The bride is in critical condition and the groom is afraid to face her father and tell him that his only father is dying because of him. So he decides to go after the ugly girl and asks if she would be willing to get plastic surgery to look like his wife, and to pose as her while she recovers. The ugly girl agrees and for a while she tries to live up to the brides lifestyle which includes: running a complaint, spending time with dad, ect. I forget what else happens but then i remember that at the end the bride dies and the father find out what happened but he isn’t upset with the poser girl and instead is very kind to her that’s all i remember, please help me find it!
Asian drama 2 : I don’t remember much about this one, it’s about a girl who works at this restaurant with her father. One day a television host (i think his name was su woo zi but i don’t think so) comes into the store broadcasting his show when all of a sudden he walks into a room (unknowingly) and catches the girl trying to use a pump to make her breast bigger; everything is broadcasted . She becomes a laughing stalk and people began to criticize her small boobs, she confronts the show host and tells him to make up a lie so she isn’t made fun of anymore; so he decides to photoshop her boobs and everyone stops making fun of her. I don’t remember much after that, but i also remember the television host ends up in a slump and gets help from the girl to regain popularity ( or something like that). Another important this o remember is that the the host had an “enemy”, his enemy was a man who’s daughters face was burned on one side because of the host who had something to do with his enemies house burning down leading to his daughter getting hurt and the death of the mans wife. Anyway at the end i remember the man and his daughter moved away and lived a happy life (the daughters burn also healed) and the TV host got married and had a baby with the girl. please help find it!
i know it’s a lot but i would really appreciate it, i’ve been looking for these dramas for SO LONG, i’ve just now decided to ask others for help. Please, any ideas of what they might be is also very appreciated. thank you!!
Asian drama 2 : I don’t remember much about this one, it’s about a girl who works at this restaurant with her father. One day a television host (i think his name was su woo zi but i don’t think so) comes into the store broadcasting his show when all of a sudden he walks into a room (unknowingly) and catches the girl trying to use a pump to make her breast bigger; everything is broadcasted . She becomes a laughing stalk and people began to criticize her small boobs, she confronts the show host and tells him to make up a lie so she isn’t made fun of anymore; so he decides to photoshop her boobs and everyone stops making fun of her. I don’t remember much after that, but i also remember the television host ends up in a slump and gets help from the girl to regain popularity ( or something like that). Another important this o remember is that the the host had an “enemy”, his enemy was a man who’s daughters face was burned on one side because of the host who had something to do with his enemies house burning down leading to his daughter getting hurt and the death of the mans wife. Anyway at the end i remember the man and his daughter moved away and lived a happy life (the daughters burn also healed) and the TV host got married and had a baby with the girl. please help find it!
i know it’s a lot but i would really appreciate it, i’ve been looking for these dramas for SO LONG, i’ve just now decided to ask others for help. Please, any ideas of what they might be is also very appreciated. thank you!!
about get to know you
What do you think? Dont you think it sucked?? Like, most of the characters arent very memorable. Or do you actually like it? Honestly, after seeing how they did Joel, i've lost interest. They did him like a side character.
21 06,2020
What's the most toxic shoujo you've read in your opinion? (=・ω・=)
21 06,2020
I have this question for a long time is there any Muslim LGBTQ here I m a muslim but I m.lesbian and I know in islam it's a bit hard so is there any
So.. What is the most fucked up thing you've read.. In my case its killing stalking.. Warehouse and that one webtoon.. Its has the same author who made love shuttle.. There are many more but I forgot their names..
about line friends
about get to know you
21 06,2020
So like I found a kenma x kuroo.. Blcd?.. Anyways, I also found out that they were the real voice actors.. As I was listening to it.. I cried.. My kurotsukki heart broke into lil pieces.. Ik I sound a bit dramatic.. But it hurts.. I'm literally in tears as I'm writing this.. ╥﹏╥
If you also wanna listen to that I'll give you the link
https://youtu.be/U1Pg_oh-vh8
My heart still hurts
If you also wanna listen to that I'll give you the link
https://youtu.be/U1Pg_oh-vh8
My heart still hurts
21 06,2020
So ye I always see these favorite Yaoi manga questions going around but never about Shounen-Ai - so tell me your favorite Shounen-Ai Manga/etc!
Doesn't even have to be tagged as Shounen-Ai, it can also be your favorite Bromance (= describes the unique male bonding found between heterosexual males)
I personally love so many but gotta go with these 3 for now:
• A Shoulder to Cry On
• Komatta Toki Ni wa Hoshi ni Kike!
• Rain Shower
And you? ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Doesn't even have to be tagged as Shounen-Ai, it can also be your favorite Bromance (= describes the unique male bonding found between heterosexual males)
I personally love so many but gotta go with these 3 for now:
• A Shoulder to Cry On
• Komatta Toki Ni wa Hoshi ni Kike!
• Rain Shower
And you? ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
21 06,2020
Why did the artwork change? I was reading some of the old manga and the artwork of some changed...i don't like it ( ̄へ ̄) i want it back like how it used to(〜 ̄△ ̄)〜
Do you agree?
Do you agree?
about talk to yourself
21 06,2020
im so frustrated that its now mainstream.
i'll probably get hate for this and i'm happy to read your thoughts on this subject, but hear me out.
ive been reading yaoi since five years ago. ive read it and fangirl among my highschool friends, silently since yaoi wasn't mainstream as it is now. for years, we had to hide it but of course as we grew comfortable, we got too carried away. people used to silently judge us for it, looking at us with those disgusted eyes, calling us "weirdos."
BUT NOW, even those people who looked at us with those eyes, look at the same (or at least the popular ones tbh) bl and yaoi that they judged us for. im GENUINELY HAPPY THAT they read it now and they express the same fangirl or fanboy feeling in reading these masterpieces, but im so frustrated and angry that it becomes unfathomable. it hurts so bad tbh.
skl i saw this post on fb, "akala ko homophobic ka gurl?" (i thought you were homophobic, gurl?) i dont really approve of this since we can all change our views as we become even more mature, but oh how satisfying was this.
i dont mean to bash the new fujos and fudans, honestly, welcome to the community!! feel free to grab a seme or uke or seke on your way out.
but please, if youve ever done this to someone before and now read it (or it doesnt have to be just yaoi), please apologize or reach out to them. ik it isn't your duty to do so, and you may do as you please, but just...don't look down on people anymore for the things they like.
lot of love <33
i'll probably get hate for this and i'm happy to read your thoughts on this subject, but hear me out.
ive been reading yaoi since five years ago. ive read it and fangirl among my highschool friends, silently since yaoi wasn't mainstream as it is now. for years, we had to hide it but of course as we grew comfortable, we got too carried away. people used to silently judge us for it, looking at us with those disgusted eyes, calling us "weirdos."
BUT NOW, even those people who looked at us with those eyes, look at the same (or at least the popular ones tbh) bl and yaoi that they judged us for. im GENUINELY HAPPY THAT they read it now and they express the same fangirl or fanboy feeling in reading these masterpieces, but im so frustrated and angry that it becomes unfathomable. it hurts so bad tbh.
skl i saw this post on fb, "akala ko homophobic ka gurl?" (i thought you were homophobic, gurl?) i dont really approve of this since we can all change our views as we become even more mature, but oh how satisfying was this.
i dont mean to bash the new fujos and fudans, honestly, welcome to the community!! feel free to grab a seme or uke or seke on your way out.
but please, if youve ever done this to someone before and now read it (or it doesnt have to be just yaoi), please apologize or reach out to them. ik it isn't your duty to do so, and you may do as you please, but just...don't look down on people anymore for the things they like.
lot of love <33
about looking for yaoi manga
I cant remember the title of the manga i read waaaay back about some guy who keeps eating his friend’s food and they have a fight at some point and that friend can never finish his meal cause he ends up leaving an amount that the guy eats from his lunch. I hope im making sense and someone actually has read this lol cause i’ve been on this site for forever but just recently made an account
about falling inlove
21 06,2020
Love.
I'll be 100% honest. It's a foreign concept.
I know what it's like, or supposed to be like, but I haven't experienced it. I know how it feels to have butterflies in your chest, to actively look forward to a text message, or to have them in your dreams. I know it's a choice, rather than a feeling.
But people don't know that.
I know there are times where you have to try find the reason why you love them in the first place, why you thought the universe were in their eyes, why their voice makes you go "fuck yeah, you again!"
But I don't mourn when they leave. There's a pang in my chest when they say goodbye or they admit to being interested in someone else. But there's this quiet voice in the back of my head that says,
"Thank god you didn't fall in love with me."
I know I'll disappoint them. I know it because I crush on them, and I like them - but I don't love them. I'd rather be the one left, rather than the one leaving.
I've been in a relationship where I'd been romanticised so much, my ex got heavily depressed once I left. Never again. I'm not that great a person. I don't have what you need. So when I do enter a relationship, I'm careful I'll never be the one to leave.
I'm okay with it. That way, it isn't me that hurt them to begin with. What also softens the blow is that it's online... they don't truly know who I am...
But oddly enough, when they do leave, it's completely. I never speak to them again. Is it guilt? I'm a forgiving person, I'm not going to get angry... and although we'll never be the same, I can still talk to you as a friend.
Perhaps I don't know what love is like because I'm still young. People my age don't undergo the trials and tribulations of adulting, or find ways to persevere, or even have the funds to spice things up. There's only so much we can do. We're fickle. That's okay.
I know when I date, I'd be looking for a life partner. I don't WANT to be someone's ex, or someone's "past love" where something about each other just couldn't work out.
If I move abroad temporarily, I want to know they'll stay loyal. Because I would. I'd want them to look after themselves, to put themselves FIRST and put me SECOND because if they invest everything they have into a relationship with me, before I'm ready to, they'll come up short. I can't answer to every text immediately. I have a life to lead and a demanding family. I'd want them to have a part of their life I'm not in. Give them space.
But it seems anytime I do, they lose interest. That's why so many girls are clingy, why they're so possessive and afraid they'll be discarded. That's why I don't fall in love.
My solution is to find a partner when I'm in my late twenties. When I've settled down, when I'm stable and my chances of finding someone in a similar circumstance have exponentially increased.
It's a little sad, knowing I won't love for a long while. Maybe I'm being presumptuous. But really, what are the chances of finding someone that wants a future marriage partner at the age of 18?
I'll be 100% honest. It's a foreign concept.
I know what it's like, or supposed to be like, but I haven't experienced it. I know how it feels to have butterflies in your chest, to actively look forward to a text message, or to have them in your dreams. I know it's a choice, rather than a feeling.
But people don't know that.
I know there are times where you have to try find the reason why you love them in the first place, why you thought the universe were in their eyes, why their voice makes you go "fuck yeah, you again!"
But I don't mourn when they leave. There's a pang in my chest when they say goodbye or they admit to being interested in someone else. But there's this quiet voice in the back of my head that says,
"Thank god you didn't fall in love with me."
I know I'll disappoint them. I know it because I crush on them, and I like them - but I don't love them. I'd rather be the one left, rather than the one leaving.
I've been in a relationship where I'd been romanticised so much, my ex got heavily depressed once I left. Never again. I'm not that great a person. I don't have what you need. So when I do enter a relationship, I'm careful I'll never be the one to leave.
I'm okay with it. That way, it isn't me that hurt them to begin with. What also softens the blow is that it's online... they don't truly know who I am...
But oddly enough, when they do leave, it's completely. I never speak to them again. Is it guilt? I'm a forgiving person, I'm not going to get angry... and although we'll never be the same, I can still talk to you as a friend.
Perhaps I don't know what love is like because I'm still young. People my age don't undergo the trials and tribulations of adulting, or find ways to persevere, or even have the funds to spice things up. There's only so much we can do. We're fickle. That's okay.
I know when I date, I'd be looking for a life partner. I don't WANT to be someone's ex, or someone's "past love" where something about each other just couldn't work out.
If I move abroad temporarily, I want to know they'll stay loyal. Because I would. I'd want them to look after themselves, to put themselves FIRST and put me SECOND because if they invest everything they have into a relationship with me, before I'm ready to, they'll come up short. I can't answer to every text immediately. I have a life to lead and a demanding family. I'd want them to have a part of their life I'm not in. Give them space.
But it seems anytime I do, they lose interest. That's why so many girls are clingy, why they're so possessive and afraid they'll be discarded. That's why I don't fall in love.
My solution is to find a partner when I'm in my late twenties. When I've settled down, when I'm stable and my chances of finding someone in a similar circumstance have exponentially increased.
It's a little sad, knowing I won't love for a long while. Maybe I'm being presumptuous. But really, what are the chances of finding someone that wants a future marriage partner at the age of 18?
about masturbated to yaoi
21 06,2020
I feel dirty asking abt this truly T-T but if u have done it before, is it worth it? Should I try it? Idk idk i feel weird writing this out but i wanna know!!! T-T
about talk to yourself
21 06,2020
y'all ever felt as if no one cares about you? like even if you disappear, no one would notice?