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people who're in a relationship or just in love with someone, how do you know that its love and what does it feel like to be in love?
how do you know you like that person??

So, I have been in love with some one for years together now..... they don't know about my love for them and we still continue to be friends and relatives till date. By now I'm pretty sure that they will not see me as anything more than a friend and I wish to remain by their side "just" as a friend. So can u guys help me on how I should forget about them and if u have any experience pls share it with me! Because no one in the world knows about my love for them and this is the very first social platform where I wrote my unrequited love story.
And if u ask me why I'm not confessing.....its because they already have someone special in their life(although they are not married yet)......and there is nothing I wish for more than them to be happy together forever....

Sometimes do u ever wish you could go back and say something different. As an example, u were in a argument but then u start to think maybe i should have said this or this. I overthink alot of situations but i think its normal. Sometimes when im in public i think people are staring at me and judging me. This usually causes me not to go out in public as often. But when i do go out i feel like the people that are passing me are eyeing me and judging me on what i wear. Its almost as if my own brain is starting to create these scenarios where i'm being bullied by these people i don't even know. so am i crazy? Is this normal?

So like I'm wondering if any of you guys are chunibyous or was one. My sister when she was younger believed that she had a small black dragon pet following her everywhere. So i found this cute and wondered if you guys have anything similar to this

hi uhh i'm looking for friends?? i'm particularly into bts, anime, bl, etc etc and i like drawing, reading novels, and writing. so if anyone is also lonely af and also has similar interests then let's be friends ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ

you can contact me here :D
twt: @fairynamgis
insta: @faenamgis
discord: faenamgis#3645

I just would like to hear anyone's opinion on black cosplayers? I've seen too many of them harrassed for being black and cosplaying it's so gross I've recently just seen another one and it had me so sickened actually that people are that hateful for no reason ! She was called the n word with the hard r, compared to mr popo from Dbz it's awful. I've seen many actual Japanese people from Japan support black cosplayers but it's the white people who are upset? Why is that? Idk why they think anime characters are white?! It's the loser teenagers who think anime is a personality trait with anime pfp on every social media they have. Anyways thoughts. (The recent post I'm referring to is @litdesu on Twitter it's her pinned tweet you can check It out if you want.)

Yaoi is known for fetishizing gay men/relationships. I might sound ignorant for asking this but why is that bad? Why is having this fetish bad? I'm assuming it's thoughts people have in their heads, but as long as others aren't harmed, it should be fine?

HELLO IM SO MAD RN.

i saw this post in facebook just a few minutes ago.

here's the link:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=271534527501403&id=100039345722213&sfnsn=mo

basically, in the long ass post, this girl and her friends were shipping their two guy classmates together. they even imagined them having sex and all. the person took a pic of the guys being close to each other. unfortunately for her, she got caught by one of the guys. the guy made her explain which she did but she made a lie at the end saying, 'i was made to it.' ofc the guy got mad and told her off, maybe harshly, who knows

BUT GET THIS

she had the guts to get mad at him for getting mad her cause she and her friends were just having fun. WTF. ITS UR FAULT.

WHATS MORE, SHE POSTED THE PIC OF THE TWO GUYS.

AND EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS SUPPORTED HER. THATS BATSHIT CRAZY. URR HARASSING THEM.

please help me report her and her post. thats all thanks.

Do you have an opinion that you think most people don't agree with?
Share with us which and why uwu

i’m curious bc i know this person who has completely different views than i do and they recently posted about how different political views doesn’t mean mean we still can’t be friends but their views in general (not just political but also on issues like racism etc.) are way too different to mine. i just wanted to know if it’s bad to drop friendships/relationships based on different views since i know everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and such

Here's the thing, no one is denying that it's fictional. Let's get that out of the way right now. Unless that shit says "based on a true story" on the front, there's no reason to assume otherwise.

But the issue is that we have a bunch of straight girls deciding that a medium depicting gay people isn't affecting anyone. Because apparently they're the authority on the matter, and not the people depicted in said mediums.

When you say "it's just fiction, it doesn't affect reality", you don't get to make that claim that for everyone. The most you can say is it's not affecting YOUR reality, because it's literally not. At all. Which I'm more than happy for you that it's not, I really truly am. I and every other lgbt person on this site would love to say the same, believe me.

But you don't get to decide for a completely different demographic of people what does and doesn't have real-life consequences for them. That is not your place, not your call to make.

If you wanna make that claim about shoujo, or if you wanna make that claim about hentai, then by all means make that claim. Tell us your grievances and if people have any shred of decency they'll listen and try to be part of the solution. But ya'll don't do that for us, and you really need to start.

By no means am I saying you shouldn't read yaoi. But what I am saying is that ya'll need to stop trying to justify the problems when we present them to you, or claim that they aren't actually problems at all, or that we're just blowing things out of proportion, or that "yaoi is for straight people anyways". You've been shutting people down every damn time for YEARS and it cannot continue any longer.

Today, I tried self harming and it didn't hurt or bleed sadly but then I realised what I was doing. Self harming is wrong and idk why I did that even though I know there's nothing wrong with me (I think). Now I am confused. My life isn't bad and I think I'm happy. I didn't have a hard time today (I think), I was just really nervous about a family gathering. What does this mean? I mean maybe it has the fact that I remember hating my cousins for a reason I forgot?? Anyways, am I just seeking attention or is there something wrong with me??? Am I just being stupid???

So, I'm wondering how, where, and when do you read the mangas here? I'm trying to find a rhythm because in my case I've been reading

When: all the time

Where: either just laying on my bed or couch

How: just binging all chapters available, while my body dehydrate away

Obviously unhealthy, so I'm trying to find inspiration from healthier people~
Or call you out on your habits

I'm not suicidal (I think) but I want to die. I sometimes search up ways to die and get absorbed into the topic. I also think that if my life turns really bad, I can commit suicide. My life's good right now and I'm happy reading yaoi. I don't think this is normal but I wish I could gather enough courage to die. Is it normal?

Their are people on twitter who say yaoi is fetishizing of gay couples ..
I been reading yaoi for long time and I have never disrespect or fetishize any gay people in real life , I may have ship some kpop idols or anime characters but everyone else did it .. to me I like yaoi and I don't even know why it just make me happy when I read it .. so what wrong with that ?

Why can't straight girls like and read yaoi ? How should I respond to those accusations made by those people ?

What's a secret you won't share with anyone in person, but you are willing to do anonymously?

I learned I can get turned on to anything in hentai
No matter how disgusting
Is their anyone else like that

I'm gonna make an Instagram GC about yaoi so yea DM me on ig to get in: Softy.coffe

My personal opinion, I hate that storyline/plot so so SO much. Especially when it’s fat to everyone wants her she’s so hot, it makes me cringe. I used to really like kiss him not me until I noticed how incredibly toxic it was. Another example when tbh it isn’t really ugly to beautiful it’s more ugly to pretty with makeup on and slow burn of will he find out or not. Personally it’s just not my cup of tea! What are your thoughts?