Suddenly I had realized that in many yaoi mangas the main characters are talking about erogenous zones.What thats mean.I knda understand that an erogenous zone is the place where you can feel weak and good if someone touches the plase but anyway its strange can that be possible?Well I knda noticed that i feel strange when someone touches my ears but I am steal confused about this thing.Explain me please ╥﹏╥
Are you a maladaptive daydreamer? How do you cope, and what are your main daydreams/fantasies?
Often maladaptive daydreams are prompted by 'triggers' which may include conversational topics, sensory stimuli, or physical experiences. Maladaptive daydreamers may also experience trouble completing routine tasks or going to sleep, due to their desire to continue daydreaming. Oftentimes while maladaptive daydreamers are daydreaming, they will whisper, talk, make facial expressions, or do some sort of repetitive movements, such as pacing.
Maladaptive daydreamers can spend hours simply daydreaming. They may have elaborate fantasies within their minds, often comparable to a complete novel or movie. Many have more than one fantasy in their mind, each with its own characters, setting, plots, etc. (source:wikipedia)
Often maladaptive daydreams are prompted by 'triggers' which may include conversational topics, sensory stimuli, or physical experiences. Maladaptive daydreamers may also experience trouble completing routine tasks or going to sleep, due to their desire to continue daydreaming. Oftentimes while maladaptive daydreamers are daydreaming, they will whisper, talk, make facial expressions, or do some sort of repetitive movements, such as pacing.
Maladaptive daydreamers can spend hours simply daydreaming. They may have elaborate fantasies within their minds, often comparable to a complete novel or movie. Many have more than one fantasy in their mind, each with its own characters, setting, plots, etc. (source:wikipedia)
about confess to your crush
Hi. I adress this to boys.What will you do if the girl you love cant have a child?Will you abandon her?And your family want a grandson
about confess to your crush
What did you do when you had your first crush? Did you confess?
When I had my first crush (5th grade) I would just watch them from afar... and I'll have you know, this is before I got my glasses, so to be honest, I didn't know what they looked like. I just assumed they were some god-like person... and when I finally got close enough to see the features on their face, I realized.. they were ugly asf!! Also, I had only seen them when they were by themself, so I didn't know their true personality. All I can say is, good job 11 year old kuma chan..
When I had my first crush (5th grade) I would just watch them from afar... and I'll have you know, this is before I got my glasses, so to be honest, I didn't know what they looked like. I just assumed they were some god-like person... and when I finally got close enough to see the features on their face, I realized.. they were ugly asf!! Also, I had only seen them when they were by themself, so I didn't know their true personality. All I can say is, good job 11 year old kuma chan..
about confess to your crush
I just recently dyed my hair a kind of pink-peach color and I wanna know how many other people on here have dyed hair and what color. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
about read manga
How and when did you guys discovered you are into guy x guy stuff?
For me it was summer holiday before first year of high school, I was watching TV, then move "No night is too long" started and when I saw two guys kissing I was like "Damn, I like it, I want to see more..." It made me feel really excited.
But I didn't start to read/watch yaoi until year ago.
For me it was summer holiday before first year of high school, I was watching TV, then move "No night is too long" started and when I saw two guys kissing I was like "Damn, I like it, I want to see more..." It made me feel really excited.
But I didn't start to read/watch yaoi until year ago.
about read manga
Why do you think girls like to read romance that involves only men, people they can't relate to? I've been wondering about this for so long, and now the whole fetichization of gay ppl thing have brought up answers to that. But I couldn't help but think there's something else (in my case at least)
I discovered yaoi (through a very sexual doujinshi) when I was 11 or 12, and 6 years later I realize it has become a habit to read it. It was the very first sexual thing that I deliberately watched so it made me uncomfortable but curious at the same time, and here I am now.
Since then I've always been wondering: why do I enjoy yaoi?
I actually discovered hentai at the same time but after a few I got sick of it. I'm originally not a fan of romance AT ALL either and I especially don't enjoy shoujou manga.
Additionally, I've always disliked female characters in movies in general (since as early as 6 or 7 years old), because they were always only a love interest for the main characters. They were somewhat seen as 'weaker' and they offered no intellectual and emotional depth (I didn't watch a lot of films back in the day and I guess I was watching the wrong ones). In fact, I preferred identifying with the male characters because they were 'stronger' (the only ones I liked were the ones who didn't need/had a man by their side and who were badasses).
Over the years I came to distance myself from all the female characters who were romantically involved. And since it's the case for a vast majority of female characters, I distanced myself even more from female characters in general. Basically I always felt like I had some kind of """trauma"""" (sorry my english vocabulary isn't extended and I don't have any word that truly matches my feelings toward this) when it comes to love and it's depiction.
I think it can explain why I gave up on shoujou manga and hentai but not yaoi. Since it's m x m pairings, I had the feeling both parts were strong and on equal grounds and since I always identified with male characters I could easily do the same in yaoi mangas (I began by reading the good kind of yaoi lol). Plus I was sexually awakening and of course I was interested in the sexual stuff that was going on.
So I got used to read it and now it has become a habit. I'm not that picky about what I read but I usually only read a yaoi if it's worth it. Just like any other romance genre (I still don't like shoujou but I'm less reluctant to watch movies/books with romance in it), I don't like it if it's only smut, if it's unrealistic (like if it's not accurately depicting one's psychology etc.) etc.
Now, many people consider girls reading yaoi as fetichizing gay people. I do agree with it. I do agree that many yaoi mangas are spreading inaccurate, fantasized and totally off views on gay relationships, but I do think there are actually good stories out there that are truly worth the read. I try to restrain any kind of behaviour that may be suggesting fetichization, but I find it impossible to make myself stop reading yaoi bc it's been part of my life for so long and because all the possible reasons I tried to list above made it so.
It's true that I also ship m x m pairings in the fandoms I'm in but it's only because I find the relationship they have interesting. I also ship f x f pairings (I rarely ship m x f pairings lol). It's simply because I feel like in het relationships in fictions, the romance always seems obvious and forced, with no real depth. A man and a woman just have to look at each other in the eye and people call it a love story. Whereas relationships between people of the same sex are always so different and interesting! And being LGBTQ+ I can relate to it.
Just to clarify: As I grew older and more mature, I realized they were actually quite a lot of movies with interesting woman characters and interesting romantic relationships that didn't overlap with the actual plot so I came to accept romance and female characters more as I embraced my real identity (truth is I denied and/or didn't realize the fact that I was also attracted to female characters bc I come from a traditional environment where no one ever told me that it was possible for two girls to be in love and where gender roles were important) and I also began to read Yuri.
But I have to admit I read a lot of yaoi but Yuri, not that much. I don't know if it's because I started to read Yuri late, or because I've been reading yaoi for so long it has become a habit I can't get myself off, or both lol. But I tend to get uncomfortable when I see Yuri where the girls are all sexualized and depicted the same way as hentai 2D girls. And I don't know a lot of Yuri but everytime I read it it's always either that or really low-key stories where nothing ever happens lol. That's why I'm not as familiar with the genre as I am with yaoi.
But again I'm a girl and I don't know the struggle of boys and men being sexualized in yaoi as well and gay people being fetichized too, so I guess it makes me have some kind of double standards? I don't know and I'd like to change any possible problematic behaviour I could have.
What about you? Why do you read yaoi (if you even do)? What do you think about it being fetichization of gay people?
I discovered yaoi (through a very sexual doujinshi) when I was 11 or 12, and 6 years later I realize it has become a habit to read it. It was the very first sexual thing that I deliberately watched so it made me uncomfortable but curious at the same time, and here I am now.
Since then I've always been wondering: why do I enjoy yaoi?
I actually discovered hentai at the same time but after a few I got sick of it. I'm originally not a fan of romance AT ALL either and I especially don't enjoy shoujou manga.
Additionally, I've always disliked female characters in movies in general (since as early as 6 or 7 years old), because they were always only a love interest for the main characters. They were somewhat seen as 'weaker' and they offered no intellectual and emotional depth (I didn't watch a lot of films back in the day and I guess I was watching the wrong ones). In fact, I preferred identifying with the male characters because they were 'stronger' (the only ones I liked were the ones who didn't need/had a man by their side and who were badasses).
Over the years I came to distance myself from all the female characters who were romantically involved. And since it's the case for a vast majority of female characters, I distanced myself even more from female characters in general. Basically I always felt like I had some kind of """trauma"""" (sorry my english vocabulary isn't extended and I don't have any word that truly matches my feelings toward this) when it comes to love and it's depiction.
I think it can explain why I gave up on shoujou manga and hentai but not yaoi. Since it's m x m pairings, I had the feeling both parts were strong and on equal grounds and since I always identified with male characters I could easily do the same in yaoi mangas (I began by reading the good kind of yaoi lol). Plus I was sexually awakening and of course I was interested in the sexual stuff that was going on.
So I got used to read it and now it has become a habit. I'm not that picky about what I read but I usually only read a yaoi if it's worth it. Just like any other romance genre (I still don't like shoujou but I'm less reluctant to watch movies/books with romance in it), I don't like it if it's only smut, if it's unrealistic (like if it's not accurately depicting one's psychology etc.) etc.
Now, many people consider girls reading yaoi as fetichizing gay people. I do agree with it. I do agree that many yaoi mangas are spreading inaccurate, fantasized and totally off views on gay relationships, but I do think there are actually good stories out there that are truly worth the read. I try to restrain any kind of behaviour that may be suggesting fetichization, but I find it impossible to make myself stop reading yaoi bc it's been part of my life for so long and because all the possible reasons I tried to list above made it so.
It's true that I also ship m x m pairings in the fandoms I'm in but it's only because I find the relationship they have interesting. I also ship f x f pairings (I rarely ship m x f pairings lol). It's simply because I feel like in het relationships in fictions, the romance always seems obvious and forced, with no real depth. A man and a woman just have to look at each other in the eye and people call it a love story. Whereas relationships between people of the same sex are always so different and interesting! And being LGBTQ+ I can relate to it.
Just to clarify: As I grew older and more mature, I realized they were actually quite a lot of movies with interesting woman characters and interesting romantic relationships that didn't overlap with the actual plot so I came to accept romance and female characters more as I embraced my real identity (truth is I denied and/or didn't realize the fact that I was also attracted to female characters bc I come from a traditional environment where no one ever told me that it was possible for two girls to be in love and where gender roles were important) and I also began to read Yuri.
But I have to admit I read a lot of yaoi but Yuri, not that much. I don't know if it's because I started to read Yuri late, or because I've been reading yaoi for so long it has become a habit I can't get myself off, or both lol. But I tend to get uncomfortable when I see Yuri where the girls are all sexualized and depicted the same way as hentai 2D girls. And I don't know a lot of Yuri but everytime I read it it's always either that or really low-key stories where nothing ever happens lol. That's why I'm not as familiar with the genre as I am with yaoi.
But again I'm a girl and I don't know the struggle of boys and men being sexualized in yaoi as well and gay people being fetichized too, so I guess it makes me have some kind of double standards? I don't know and I'd like to change any possible problematic behaviour I could have.
What about you? Why do you read yaoi (if you even do)? What do you think about it being fetichization of gay people?
about confess to your crush
I started reading yaoi after whatching haikyuu!! or SNK. I was sooo obsed by hinata and tobio so I wanted to see more them. I searched on my friend the internet and I find a fucking load of doujinshi. It made my heart race and blush like HELL YEAH GIMME MORE. Then I foung mangago and now I read everyday yaoi soooooooo i guess Î'm adict to it now ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Î'm curious about you guys ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
I love being on mangago. It makes me feel like i can be someone else. In school, people sees me like the girl who is saint and pure ( idk why cos I'm wayyyyy more lewd then all of them (╬￣皿￣)凸)
I LOVE YOU MANGAGO, have a good day,
Î'm curious about you guys ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
I love being on mangago. It makes me feel like i can be someone else. In school, people sees me like the girl who is saint and pure ( idk why cos I'm wayyyyy more lewd then all of them (╬￣皿￣)凸)
I LOVE YOU MANGAGO, have a good day,
about not having a boyfriend
I've never experience love or anything like that and when I see other people that are like 10 years older than me and they already got like their fucking romantic life figure it out, I ask myself what the hell is wrong with you.
My personality is a shit and I'm so fucking ugly, like you cant imagine, so Ive always though that was the reason behind everything.
So now I want to ask if there's actually something wrong or do you think is normal... ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
My personality is a shit and I'm so fucking ugly, like you cant imagine, so Ive always though that was the reason behind everything.
So now I want to ask if there's actually something wrong or do you think is normal... ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
about confess to your crush
Are you a virgin because no one has really approached you. Or did you do a lot of rejecting?
Personally, I am a virgin because I haven't really met the one. I have rejected people in the past, but recently not very many guys approach me. I feel like if a guy approaches me, and is somewhat my type, i'd probs lose my virginity to him, just out of curiosity.
I hope this question doesn't offend anyone. I am genuinely just curious in knowing!
xoxo
Personally, I am a virgin because I haven't really met the one. I have rejected people in the past, but recently not very many guys approach me. I feel like if a guy approaches me, and is somewhat my type, i'd probs lose my virginity to him, just out of curiosity.
I hope this question doesn't offend anyone. I am genuinely just curious in knowing!
xoxo
about first kiss
So in the series "Haru wo daiteita" Iwaki san get really sick remember what chapter it is from. He has fainted from overworking once, but there was one where he became seriously ill! Please help meee! (〜￣△￣)〜
about confess to your crush
First things first, I lack both sympathy and empathy, so I apologize beforehand if I end up offending people.
So really I'm wondering if I'm taking virginity too seriously or other people are just taking it too lightly. As I was growing up I was always told that virginity was really important and it should only be lost to the one you love. I'm assuming it's because of this I believe you should wait until you're married.
I'm horrified seeing tons of people lose it when they're a teen, just 'experiencing', or before they're married. In all honesty, I'm disgusted and don't have very good opinions about those people. I could never understand why you would do such a thing, even if you use protection there is still a chance of pregnancy. Although the chance is very low, you still can't pretend it's 0...
Plus, usually they break up anyway, then when they do find the right person they no longer have it. Is it just not as important as I thought it was? However, I am obviously still aware that you can still divorce even after marriage but I don't know...
Again, I apologize that this came out harshly but it's my honest opinion, not trying to fight with anyone or anything. I just want others thoughts on this.
(Also I'm a teenager)
So really I'm wondering if I'm taking virginity too seriously or other people are just taking it too lightly. As I was growing up I was always told that virginity was really important and it should only be lost to the one you love. I'm assuming it's because of this I believe you should wait until you're married.
I'm horrified seeing tons of people lose it when they're a teen, just 'experiencing', or before they're married. In all honesty, I'm disgusted and don't have very good opinions about those people. I could never understand why you would do such a thing, even if you use protection there is still a chance of pregnancy. Although the chance is very low, you still can't pretend it's 0...
Plus, usually they break up anyway, then when they do find the right person they no longer have it. Is it just not as important as I thought it was? However, I am obviously still aware that you can still divorce even after marriage but I don't know...
Again, I apologize that this came out harshly but it's my honest opinion, not trying to fight with anyone or anything. I just want others thoughts on this.
(Also I'm a teenager)
about get yaoi manga book
Ansgt and graphic ones are my favourite . I just really enjoy the concept but don't know what to check out .（￣へ￣）All suggestions would be appreciated , thanks <3
about jokes on boyxboy
Came across this on some Chinese website and had to share:
Girl: Who’s your crush?
Guy: Someone in the class. Guess.
The girl guessed every other girl in the class.
Guy: None of them are right.
Girl: …
The girl blushed and turned her head the other direction.
The guy smiled.
Guy: You haven’t guessed the boys yet.
If you have anything funny or cute, please share. XD
I don't recall seeing any like these on anglosphere websites??
Girl: Who’s your crush?
Guy: Someone in the class. Guess.
The girl guessed every other girl in the class.
Guy: None of them are right.
Girl: …
The girl blushed and turned her head the other direction.
The guy smiled.
Guy: You haven’t guessed the boys yet.
If you have anything funny or cute, please share. XD
I don't recall seeing any like these on anglosphere websites??
about get yaoi manga book
about first kiss
i, fortunately, don't have such friends. if anything, i'm closely related to a weeaboo whom my friends will not like. i like to call myself a otaku. how about you guys? any weeaboo friends? and how do they act around you? how do you react to them?
about paranoia
I noticed i'm very paranoid sometimes.. Like today i got so paranoid that i had a major panic attack, i blocked one of my good friends on Facebook and Messenger... Ect ect
The thing i got so paranoid was bc the friend that i blocked sent a screen shot of something i said, to my other best friend, it wasn't something bad at all, it was just a some thing, but i started to shake and i couldn't breathe bc i kept thinking that that friend sent screen shots of our conversations to someone else too, i hate the thought that someone knows something about me, anything, like that i'm cold, if i don't want them to know.
I made a huge thing out of nothing, and i scared my friends...
It's not the first time too, before i kept thinking that i'll buy the phone from 10 years ago so the government can't track me, that i'll erase Facebook and Messenger bc the fucking government reads my messages and "knows me"...
I'm scared that i have some mental illness to be honest, or that it will develop in illness in future bc i'm still young, i'm 15...
So if you have also some experience with this, please tell me, i'm kind of scared of myself... Really...
Thanks anyway.
The thing i got so paranoid was bc the friend that i blocked sent a screen shot of something i said, to my other best friend, it wasn't something bad at all, it was just a some thing, but i started to shake and i couldn't breathe bc i kept thinking that that friend sent screen shots of our conversations to someone else too, i hate the thought that someone knows something about me, anything, like that i'm cold, if i don't want them to know.
I made a huge thing out of nothing, and i scared my friends...
It's not the first time too, before i kept thinking that i'll buy the phone from 10 years ago so the government can't track me, that i'll erase Facebook and Messenger bc the fucking government reads my messages and "knows me"...
I'm scared that i have some mental illness to be honest, or that it will develop in illness in future bc i'm still young, i'm 15...
So if you have also some experience with this, please tell me, i'm kind of scared of myself... Really...
Thanks anyway.
about read manga
ok. so we often see this yaoi: a guy who is actual gay sleeping with women.
i know this might be a stupid question but would this actually work in real life?!
i mean women can technically sleep with whichever gender since we don´t ´have to get it up´ u know?!
but does is actually work the other way around too?
please serious answers
i know this might be a stupid question but would this actually work in real life?!
i mean women can technically sleep with whichever gender since we don´t ´have to get it up´ u know?!
but does is actually work the other way around too?
please serious answers
about first kiss
the manga is called "we are magic school destroy" (?) according to google translate. it's been going for a while so I don't know why no one seems to be translating it? here's the link: comic.pixiv.net/works/2664 does anyone know if someone is translating?
