I'm 13 So I'm in no rush to lose my maiden hood, idk if I'm being stereotypical but like I feel like everyone in America loses their maiden hood at such young ages like common what's the BIG TIME RUSH like why not try to be pure and making it the norm to lose ur charity at the age of 15, Being a virgin just means u going to heaven if u die right no...... reply
Unless I develop an interest in sex in the future pretty sure I'll die a virgin and I'm 100% for it. Find no appeal in sex and no appeal in having children so no reason to lose virginity for me ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ reply
Never. I'm waaaaay too shy to ever do something like that. Granted, I haven't had many crushes - probably 3 all back during school. First was my sibling's friend who I hung out with a few times. Second was a classmate I spoke to a few times then the next year we didn't have any classes together so moved on but then the last three years of school we...... reply
I think anyone who has read yaoi is bothered by it. The problem is rape is used as a plot point in yaoi... so after reading about 10 yaoi titles with rape as a means of showing love - the reader is desensitized.
We cannot entirely blame the mangakas. Most of them are women and could possibly have never really met a same sex couple irl. The probl...... reply
Honestly for me it depends on how it's being portrayed. fiction is fiction but, if rape is seen as like a negative thing and they don't fall in love with the rapist then I'm generally okay with reading it. What bothers me is how rape is romanticized a lot in yaoi. In Sekaiichi Hatsukoi and Junjou Romantica there is a lot of "noncon" which is basica...... 1 reply
tbh i am. it's all fiction. it's the authors' choice to write it and it's our choice to read it or not. these are not harming anyone lol. i personally get upset when i start to read a story beacuse the first chapter is sweet and then they bring rape scenes then again falling in love and all :( reply
i was actually wondering about this too.. like almost all yaoi that i read includes rape, especially manhwas.. it bothers me but i just keep on reading it.. i also don't know why? maybe because it's just a manhwa and maybe because it is yaoi?? i tried to convince myself that this is just fiction but sometimes really i couldn't help but stop and re-...... reply
The thing that I think bothers me about it the most is the fact that I get the felling people over look it more because it is two guys. Like if it was a straight couple and the one saying 'no' but being forced on was a girl I fell like there would be less people just going along with it. 2 reply
well, personally, I hate it. they make me cringe and the cruelty of the seme is hard to watch. but, for some people they have rape fantasies and enjoy that kind of thing in stories, and that's okay, because that doesn't mean they condone it in real life. I love horror and gore, but I can't stand people being hurt in real life! anyone sane knows the...... reply
I absolutely HATE rape. I especially hate it when the uke actually falls in love with the seme because of the rape. I will never be okay with it. It always disturbs me a little seeing rape happen. I love Yaoi too, but I seriously wish so many freaking authors wouldn't put rape in their Yaoi. If they must put rape in their Yaoi, it would be nice if ...... 2 reply
hii!!! u seem very fun and we have mutual interests it seems hehe i rarely have time for kdramas now because of college but exo!!! fuck it up!!!! do you have twitter? id love to be friends (≧∀≦) 2 reply
I use to read fanfic about it like a loser with them reader cuz I’m a loser haha, but i guess i liked it because it felt like yea they would only be loyal to you and do anything for you ig i liked the idea of that in rl that would suck and that’s a toxic relationship but i just want a bf in general reply
I was 17, and I can even tell you the place and the date. I was on a plane flying to the Bahamas with my best friend. We each had a copy of Fake in our hands. We got to the first kiss around the same time and screamed right there on the plane. We were instant fangirls. That was July 3rd, 2003. 2 reply
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