I don't ever want to get married. Sometimes I fantasize about being with someone with a unique personality and likes the same thing I like, but that's all it is, a fantasy. I don't want one it real life. I'm cool on my own, and I'm the only one that can make myself truly happy. I never once imagined that I'll settle down and have a family of my own...... 2 reply
One where you can't easily tell who the seme and uke is from first glance. I read shounen ai and yaoi because I want to see m/m, and making the uke a total wimp with large doe eyes and short and the seme as a tall, chiseled and stern faced man just defeats the entire purpose, since it's basically like a straight couple but with an "m/m" label slapp...... reply
I've been married already but looking for husbando #2 haha But to answer your question yes, I'd like to get married again and maybe this time take my time and get to know the man because I rushed in with the first marriage... reply
My favorite seme + uke pairs are: Kuroneko series Keiichi + Shingo and Crimson Spell Havi + Vald.
So preferably big and strong seme, I don't like too much if they are totally screwed in the head or whimpy and such. Can be possessive as well.
Uke I like when they are catty, agile and flexible, just like Shingo and Vald. They should also have some ...... 1 reply
I really like it when the uke is kind of small and feminine and more on the dominant side, like doing little pranks on the seme.
I like the seme tot be tall and manly but to be very soft when it comes to the uke, like he cant say no to the uke and is very jealous when the uke is talking/doing something with someone else. (The seme is kind of posses...... reply
Manly/non girlish uke. Non bitchy uke is a plus. I don't have any ideal for seme, but manly seme is a plus. I also like it when the seme is prettier than the uke. But, I won't really care if the story is very good... reply
I like power dynamics a lot. Semes who like to dominate, Ukes who aren't sure about their own position but are introduced to control and domination regardless.
Other than that, I love slutty power bottoms! But that's, again, a power dynamic. LOL
And I don't mean generic BDSM scenarios. I like organic aggression. But bonus points for restraint, k...... reply
be a leader not a follower! try not to show the weak side of you every so often, be strong in power or emotion! yep I didnt really learn that much from Abarenbo Honey, so i did my favorite anime which is fairy tail reply
Communication. Is. Key. Just talk things out with your partner, let them know what’s been bothering you et cetera... But of course BL manga always has some conflicts to lengthen the plot :P 1 reply
the fluffy fuwafuwa kind of seme who is tall, kind of a pushover, but gets suuuuper angry when someone flirts with the uke. and uke is turned on by that, or is a masochist so he tries to anger the seme all the time??? so basically a nice gentle seme that occasionally gets the ‘sadistic switch’ flicked on ;)) reply
My ideal is surprisingly hard to come by, haha!
I love a calm and collected seme, almost like a monk, paired with an uke who is full of life and positive energy.
There's a few examples of how this kind of couple can vary - like how the seme can be introverted while the uke extroverted. The seme can be ditzy whilst the uke can be almost motherly. ...... 3 reply
I noticed that I am always the third person in the background who listens and advises main characters. I am afraid to be in a relationship but when someone asks for advice related to another human being, I am irreplaceable! Too many manga and books about psychology (●'◡'●)ﾉ Thanks to manga I learned to listen and always try to find a solu...... reply
Unexpectedly, yes... When I first charged into yaoi, I only had storyline/R18 scenes in mind but after a long time of reading all the different stories, both yaoi and shounen ai (sometimes), I would start to really consider whether or not what the characters would feel would be similar to my own thoughts. Because of how I grew up, I never really ha...... reply
No. I am fujoshi so this only confirm my sexuality to men. It happened to me to watch some anime or manga with the yuri undertone, but it did not catch me at all. I do not mind about lesbians and in real life I know a few. However, one thing I'm afraid that the girl will start picking me up. I'm not an assertive person and I would not be surprised ...... reply
Sure has! To the point where I briefly questioned if I was trans or not. And here's my story...
As I am now, I am a lesbian cisgender woman. I never truly discovered my sexuality until I experienced sex with both men and women. Through my experience, I found that I enjoy being with women a lot more than I do with men! On the spectrum, I'd say I am...... 3 reply
I dunno if this counts but, after reading like yaoi and like josei, or any manga where the couple ends up having sex, I realized I'm not really into that? As in, I'm not really interested in sex. Like, I'm like "why do the couples always feel like they HAVE to have sex just cuz they're dating?" Because the MC would sometimes be like "omg, we've bee...... 3 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
