Not all but many unfortunately do. Over the years I've seen multipleeeee comments from Fujoshis where they blatantly fetishize actual gay men. What ticks me off the most is how much the Yaoi industry seems to shun actual gay/bi men. It often exploits m/m relationships while paying no mind to actual gay/bi men. I mean there is always Bara manga whic...... 4 reply
I never have myself, I usually just make it abundantly obvious I have a crush on them gauge their reactions if they aren't into me then I go back being just friends with them and drop any flirting, and if they like me they don't have to worry about being rejected cause they already know I like them. I find it puts a lot less pressure on the person ...... reply
I like yaoi because i don't like the way female characters are represented in shoujo. they are always this damsel in distress and that's fucking annyoing. Not to mention the harem. I like romance but i don't like the romance they portray in shoujo. i like the one they portray in yaoi or shonen ai. what bl accomplishes in 6 chapters, shoujo doesn't ...... 7 reply
For me, that isn't true. The reason I got into reading yaoi was because I got tired of the standard female characters in manga. I started reading shounen ai first because I wanted to read a not weak protagonist and a good romance plot too. Then after I read a lot of the scanlated shounen ai manga (and there is nothing to read anymore) I started rea...... reply
Eh... that's murky territory. Do women who read erotica/smut with straight relationships objectify other women and the men inside as well?
What about lesbians who read and write lesbian romance novels or manga?
I'm a gay male and I enjoy yaoi. I don't care that it's written by women or who it's written by for that matter, as long as it's a good s...... 2 reply
1 uke (UKE!!!!!!!!)
2 gray fullbuster (....hmmm interesting XD)
3 squishy noises (.....um ok? ...I guess)
4 yuri from YOI (Ahaha I wanted to be Yurio XD)
5 the one that got rejected (I am not really proud of that XD)
6 yuri (I am starting to lose hope here XD)
7 shower sex (Woahhhh not bad!!!)
8 Taurus cancer Pisces (gosh I need to hurry u...... reply
I thought you meant "positions", I was about to say doggy style. but Yeah..never mind. To answer your question, if I was a guy, I would totally go for seme because i wanna see the uke mewing under me. But i'm not so..... 1 reply
Lost it a couple days before my 20th birthday. Last night in a city while traveling and got really really drunk so I can't really remember the details. Sexual desire and alcohol over took my rationality but I don't regret it. It wasn't like I was really saving myself or anything, I just thought it'd be more special than a one nightstand. I may no l...... 1 reply
Male or female I think switch is the best. That way you can experience best of both worlds. I identify as a lesbian switch and a threesome is my biggest fantasy and I'm into BDSM. I really like the switch aspect in both gay and BDSM relationships because you and your partner can experience really great pleasures on both ends. reply
Sexual identity can be really confusing but you don't have to feel restrained by labeling yourself. I have struggled a lot with what to identify myself as and it comes down to what you're comfortable with. Personally I'm most comfortable identifying as a lesbian but I've only dated guys in the past and can still be turned on by some guys. There is ...... reply
I could relate to that.
Loneliness never seem to stay far away, it always there wherever you attend to it. But I could never imagine myself to have romantic interest that kind of thing. Because for me, it is hard to love someone when you don’t love yourself first.
Back when I was feeling very lonely and all about being ‘nice’ to people, ...... reply
20 year old lesbian TESL teacher from Canada currently living in the Netherlands. I started off reading online novels on Wattpad about 7 or 8 years ago then I discovered my favourite author Rotty and her stories became my life. I only started reading manga about 5 years ago and have been obsessed since. I already watched anime but at the time didn'...... reply
Objectify? That’s a very strong word, and um, I don’t.
I don’t think I like that word.
But to be honest I am always surprise when I see gay men in real life (probably cause of my upbringing) but not to the point that it disgust me or use it for sexual release or something.
I respect their decision and I admire their courage to be open about...... 2 reply
The answer is; don't be a hippocrit. If you object to men enjoying lesbian pornography the yes this is bad too. Really though, we aren't hurting anyone and actualy, in more repressive comunitys (like mine growing up) The only positive interaction I would have with even the idea of homosexuality was through books (more wattpad books than manga as a ...... reply
I like yaoi because the characters are usually mature. There are shoujo where the hero/heroine are mature but it's not common and Josei has mature women but between drama and desperation to attract men, they don't act it. reply
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