Comment under me is annoying but I already have that person blocked so they must have been annoying some other time as well.
Anyway, as someone who is gay and has a strict role and position preference, people online who talk about how switching is the only “actual gay representation” are just annoying cunts who feel as though they are somehow more progressive in their perversions than everyone else when sex is a morally neutral act. Switching isn’t more or less common than any other sexual act. If you open Grindr right now you will see people list things like their body type, age, how big their dicks are, their position preference, etc. BDSM sites like FetLife where gay kink positive people meet get explicit with positions, D/s roles, and kinks. Lesbians even have traditional butch/femme dynamics. None of these things are “heteronormative” because the function of that word relies on HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS within the patriarchy being viewed as the only correct way for a man and woman to be. You are not “heteronormative” if you as a fem gay man only like it up the ass, or as a masc butch are stone and only like giving pleasure to a femme. Gay sex cannot be heteronormative because it is inherently subversive—ask an Evangelical Christian if you’re being heteronormative for only liking strict top/bottom dynamics or if you’re more “real” as a gay person for switching and they’d just tell you you’re going to Hell.
You people need to get real problems and go have actual gay sex instead of trying to shame what you presume to be women (because I caught that misogynistic undertone you losers all have) for reading BL. And mind you, if women didn’t write and draw BL you would have woefully little to read.
Thank you, you worded this so beautifully. I have been reading yaoi since forever and lately everytime I read any, especially these past few months almost every comment is talking about how their disappointments that there is no switching when it was never stated there would be. Instead of going to look for the ones that have tags about switching or looking for recommendations for switches, they go onto regular yaoi stories and complain. It has gotten annoying and makes me not want to read the comments anymore. The comment section used to be a fun read but now it’s flooded with the same comments.
Not saying that I don’t like a good switch, but I don’t comment on every one I read saying how I’m disappointed or was clickbaited when there isn’t one. I go look for recommendations that have switch couples instead.
PREACH! Your comment also made me realize there is one thing in common with commenters on ig and commenters on mgg, they both disregard preferences lol I've been fighting with homophobes on ig and keep telling them that you can't hate on a person just because of their own preferences in love and here on mgg, we have these "i know more about gay people than gay people themselves" who keep on pushing the narrative that they know better about a character's position/preference, these stories are made up by artists who already have a vision in mind about what these characters PREFER, why fcking question that if you weren't even a part of the process in creating these stories? Like atp, I just want everyone to shut up and respect other people's preferences, if you like it then that's good, if you don't then that's okay, just leave, keep your thoughts to yourself and live on with your life.
I dont wanna debate with that person cuz i feel like my words will just come out of their ears from one another to another side. But i have a lot of things to say
Lmao that’s exactly what they did with me on another thread. Couldn’t come up with a better argument against me so they blocked my replies
I just block people who’re annoying and move on at this point. My point stands that having a position preference either personally for your own sex life or for the fiction you read is morally neutral, switching ≠ “actual gay representation” as all gay relationships are in fact gay representation, that the person below doesn’t understand the function of the word “heteronormative” as it only applies to heterosexuality as a societal pressure, that there is a patronizing, misogynistic undertone to their words, and that they certainly are annoying and worth the block. My mention of my preferences (which have never changed) wasn’t the point of what I was saying, they’re just putting words in my mouth because they’re failing to understand what the rest of the words in my comment mean. Also, judging by their words, it seems like they’re saying these things not because they personally are gay, but because they have friends who are. Hysterically funny. But whatever. If I listened to everything any Tom, Dick, or Harry online said then I guess I’d be “some 13-year-old girl” and not a 28-year-old gay guy.
It is kind of pathetic how that person below kept preaching shit and think they’re better than everyone here and had the audacity and called everybody on this site as degenerates while also being here. they threw a hissyfit bc a character wouldn’t “improve” when the reason why is already told in the story and wouldn’t even acknowledge the parallels of said story with irl dynamics. Like actually braindead and just parroting whatever they heard without thinking of what it’s like to be in the shoes of the other person. They’re still a bigot no matter what bc their tones and their wording always give them away.
Lol funny caused I block that account for the exact reason of being preachy and pathetic and we’re all here trying to enjoy stories as is. I mean I personally like switch couples and it’s one of my favorite genres. I’m a girl who has gay friends and some of them are verses, some are hard bottoms or hard tops (would not switch even if their life depended on it) so I see no issue with anything here. I think the problem would be finding switching as “weird” or “gross” cause that would cross the line. But whatever someone prefers as their jack off material shouldn’t be interrogated or scrutinized if it’s not anything immoral.
He/she keeps saying some child, some child, but it's invalidating someone
Holy preach
Wujin makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand on end, which is definitely what the artist is going for. His unexpressive face and strange way of talking makes him feel cold and distant even when he’s trying to be romantic.
I 100 percent agree, his eyes are always so cold and dead. Its what makes him so scary and reading this so interesting.
Looking at the raws, I just have to drop this. I can handle toxic, but there’s absolutely no love between the main characters anymore and I really think Jihwan is going to drive Sooyoung into prostitution or suicide at this point. This is just a miserable story, and it feels like there’s no point to it. The extended wait between chapters is also making an already unpleasant feeling drag. It just sucks because I’ve been reading since this first started and I used to love it.
There has never been a better redemption arc than this.
This is surprisingly the first time I’ve ever rooted for both leads. I like the duke and the monster equally. We need a DP scene.
They need to end up all together
On my hands and knees their actually just the same person
That would be AMAZING
Are you still gonna root for the duke after he lock, chained and threatened Yarn until he went insane and eventually ended his life? But that happened before he regress so the Duke technically hasn't committed any sin yet.
WHY would you spoil the story man wtf
Dude what the hell????
Once again, shitty machine translations with zero actual proofreading from a site that’s full of ads. Garbage. Hopefully this comic gets officials or a real fan translator soon. What a waste.
Sure this isn’t the official translation so I won’t say much about the translation but ads? I see no ads so that must be a you problem
The ads are on their site. There are a bunch of bad MTL sites and “groups” that are putting out translations right now. They have ads on their sites and will use coins that you have to buy to read chapters (some chapters are released for free then you have to pay for later chapters). It’s scummy.
You need to log in and make an account to Delet the ads i literally SEE NO ADSsince i have my account. The bad thing it’s that you have to sign in everytime you have the ads.
I see you’re talking about THEIR WEBSITE not about mangago..im not gonna comment about other websites cause i never use other websites but this
just so you know most of the time its bot that updates chapters so they just took from any website that have the chapters.. but hey if the story is good and popular sooner or later you will get the official translation or a better translation group might pick it up
I’m so glad Sejin can literally feel that Ido is suffering (as he should). He finally knows he’s sincere.
The replies saying “wdym they end up back together in the end“ are so funny. You must be new here. Of course they end up getting back together. That’s how it is with every manhwa and every story. This is the romance genre formula.
Did any other novel readers make a noise when Garon turned to look at the MC through the screen as he was listening to his attendants talk about the effects MC’s poison is having on him?? I think it’s such a clever way to hint at how Garon already knew imaes poison humans through sex. The fact that he is so captivated by the MC he will destroy himself just to hold the MC is as crazy as it is romantic.
Submissive tops are so sexy, man.
Preach