about not having a boyfriend
Boywatching/girlwatching: to check out people of the mentioned gender whenever you set eyes on one.
I do, every day. Why don't we share our experiences?
Boywatching: I like to check out boys, but all the boys in my area nowadays look DISGUSTING. Like, 17 years old, and with long, matted beards and moustaches, with huge, old-style sunglasses and their hair pushed up like a stump. Why can't they dress up and look as gorgeous as BTS? Or hell, even Valery K?
Girlwatching: It's comparatively better in my area. Girls dress up decently, not too much make up, and most girls are quite pretty. All petite and fair-skinned, and carry themelves around with style.
Share your thoughts so that I'll know if I'm alone in this world or not.
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I do, every day. Why don't we share our experiences?
Boywatching: I like to check out boys, but all the boys in my area nowadays look DISGUSTING. Like, 17 years old, and with long, matted beards and moustaches, with huge, old-style sunglasses and their hair pushed up like a stump. Why can't they dress up and look as gorgeous as BTS? Or hell, even Valery K?
Girlwatching: It's comparatively better in my area. Girls dress up decently, not too much make up, and most girls are quite pretty. All petite and fair-skinned, and carry themelves around with style.
Share your thoughts so that I'll know if I'm alone in this world or not.
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Am I the only one who feels lonely 24/7 because of the failed love life? Everybody arounds me is dating or just enjoying being alone (sometimes because they can choose between being with someone or just by themselves) and I feel like I'll always be myself. As time passes by, it's becoming harder and harder to pretend I'm okay being the loner.
about what does i do
Please help me. This is a long post but I am really desperate and I can't talk to other people about this.
I have been in love with a person for over an year now. She lives in a different country, we are friends who talk on a daily basis. When I first realised I fell in love with her, I knew I was screwed. This is my first time liking someone even though I am in my early twenties.
From the start I had no hopes of getting together with her or even confessing. Nothing of that sort.
I just want to stay by her as a friend and like help her from the sidelines, being an emotional support and someone she can talk to?
But, I am an incredibly petty person and I get jealous even when I am not supposed to. And sometimes she is really mean and it hurts me so so much.
She is a person who doesn't express her feelings that much so she doesn't even pay compliments or other stuff like a good luck on my exam or things like that. I repeat, we talk on a regular basis.
Most of the time I am just afraid that I am just another person to her, even though she means so much to me(even without the whole I am in love with her deal).
I don't know what to do anymore, sometimes I hurt like crazy and I literally cry for a week. But on the other hand, I don't want to stop talking to her.
This is really messing up with my life and I am just clueless. I don't even want a romantic relationship out of this. Am I over reacting? Or am I acting too much like a clingy brat?
I have been in love with a person for over an year now. She lives in a different country, we are friends who talk on a daily basis. When I first realised I fell in love with her, I knew I was screwed. This is my first time liking someone even though I am in my early twenties.
From the start I had no hopes of getting together with her or even confessing. Nothing of that sort.
I just want to stay by her as a friend and like help her from the sidelines, being an emotional support and someone she can talk to?
But, I am an incredibly petty person and I get jealous even when I am not supposed to. And sometimes she is really mean and it hurts me so so much.
She is a person who doesn't express her feelings that much so she doesn't even pay compliments or other stuff like a good luck on my exam or things like that. I repeat, we talk on a regular basis.
Most of the time I am just afraid that I am just another person to her, even though she means so much to me(even without the whole I am in love with her deal).
I don't know what to do anymore, sometimes I hurt like crazy and I literally cry for a week. But on the other hand, I don't want to stop talking to her.
This is really messing up with my life and I am just clueless. I don't even want a romantic relationship out of this. Am I over reacting? Or am I acting too much like a clingy brat?
about confess to your crush
Is there a way to stop oneself from falling in love? I'm too traumatised but I can't help falling for someone again and again. And I'm never good enough for them.
Worse, it takes me such a short time to fall in love. At the very least anyine knows how to be on guard to prevent myself from falling in such a short time????
Worse, it takes me such a short time to fall in love. At the very least anyine knows how to be on guard to prevent myself from falling in such a short time????
A friend said that women who enjoy yaoi objectify and fetishize gay men. Is it true?
about first kiss
I'm 26 and I've been into this stuff for a good 12/13 years now.
I found about it when I was a 12 year old in 2004 on a message board for a video game called "Tales of Symphonia" where some of the fans there would ship male characters together. At the time though I was somewhat shocked that people would so this, plus I disliked the concept of shipping "non-canon pairings" in general. And most disgusting of all is that people would even ship the main character with his biological father! (Ironically this now one of my biggest fetishes lol)
It was about a year later though when a friend showed me "Yami no Matsuei" and "Loveless" where it finally dawned on me that two guys could make a viable couple with chemistry. Eventually it led me to seek out yaoi fanfiction and doujinshi of stuff like Final Fantasy 7 and Yu Yu Hakusho, now the rest is history.
Looking back my tastes in guys and ships have definitely evolved over the years though. They've gotten older and manlier looking generally. I eventually started to prefer bottoms who are bigger (or at least taller) or older than the top. Also incest is hot af, though I can't remember when that happened. As I've become more comfortable with my libido over the years I've gotten more sex centered and generally don't care for the stories in BL unless it's guaranteed to lead to porn or really good. Just show me my husbandos' asspussies getting put to good use and I'm fine.
I found about it when I was a 12 year old in 2004 on a message board for a video game called "Tales of Symphonia" where some of the fans there would ship male characters together. At the time though I was somewhat shocked that people would so this, plus I disliked the concept of shipping "non-canon pairings" in general. And most disgusting of all is that people would even ship the main character with his biological father! (Ironically this now one of my biggest fetishes lol)
It was about a year later though when a friend showed me "Yami no Matsuei" and "Loveless" where it finally dawned on me that two guys could make a viable couple with chemistry. Eventually it led me to seek out yaoi fanfiction and doujinshi of stuff like Final Fantasy 7 and Yu Yu Hakusho, now the rest is history.
Looking back my tastes in guys and ships have definitely evolved over the years though. They've gotten older and manlier looking generally. I eventually started to prefer bottoms who are bigger (or at least taller) or older than the top. Also incest is hot af, though I can't remember when that happened. As I've become more comfortable with my libido over the years I've gotten more sex centered and generally don't care for the stories in BL unless it's guaranteed to lead to porn or really good. Just show me my husbandos' asspussies getting put to good use and I'm fine.
about loving kpop
Which kpop music videos remind you of an anime and which anime?
Mines Super Junior Opera it reminds me of vampire knight or the yaoi vampire manga i don't remember the name I just know I read that one.
Also BTS Blood Sweat and Tears also reminds me of Crimson blood sorta.
Mines Super Junior Opera it reminds me of vampire knight or the yaoi vampire manga i don't remember the name I just know I read that one.
Also BTS Blood Sweat and Tears also reminds me of Crimson blood sorta.
about adopting cats
All my cats are former strays. Right now I have 7!
The last 3 ( Xingke, Marble & Fatboy)we rescued last July when my neighbors made such a fuzz about the kittens meowing that they unceremoniously kicked out momma cat and in her panic she left her babies behind. Later she came for them but she took them under a car in the alley where they ran the risk of getting runned over. Sadly we made the decision to take the babies away from her in order to save them from being runned over. One of the babies ended up dying and we found a good home for another but we kept the remaining 3.
The other 4 have varying degrees of stories.
Tiki ( my oldest, about 10 yrs.)-one Sunday morning my brother comes in "there's a cat under the house and I think she has kittens!" She didn't, but since we always have the door open she waltzed right in and went under the bed. We felt bad kicking her out. I think she was an indoor cat before because she wouldn't go out even with the door open and when I got her fixed the doctor said she had never had kittens even though she was about 2 yrs. old
Nikita-(6 yrs. old)- We found her under the hood of my brother's car. She snuck in when he went to play soccer at a park.
Eikichi- Some neighbor brought this cat from her neighborhood when she moved because there was a dog that would attack him. He was left outside so he made his way over to my place and didn't leave.
Shion- my mom started feeding what she thought was a very pretty female cat. Ended up being a very pretty male. He's very skittish, almost feral.
Felix- I used to feed as a stray until one day he came in limping and when I took him to the vet it was found out that he'd been shot. His paw was broken and after that he became my cat. He went MIA last March.
Others I've had and lost, Ikki (my 1st cat), Kyo( my 2nd cat), Gregorio aka Goyo(aka Haineko), Felix and Kiba
The last 3 ( Xingke, Marble & Fatboy)we rescued last July when my neighbors made such a fuzz about the kittens meowing that they unceremoniously kicked out momma cat and in her panic she left her babies behind. Later she came for them but she took them under a car in the alley where they ran the risk of getting runned over. Sadly we made the decision to take the babies away from her in order to save them from being runned over. One of the babies ended up dying and we found a good home for another but we kept the remaining 3.
The other 4 have varying degrees of stories.
Tiki ( my oldest, about 10 yrs.)-one Sunday morning my brother comes in "there's a cat under the house and I think she has kittens!" She didn't, but since we always have the door open she waltzed right in and went under the bed. We felt bad kicking her out. I think she was an indoor cat before because she wouldn't go out even with the door open and when I got her fixed the doctor said she had never had kittens even though she was about 2 yrs. old
Nikita-(6 yrs. old)- We found her under the hood of my brother's car. She snuck in when he went to play soccer at a park.
Eikichi- Some neighbor brought this cat from her neighborhood when she moved because there was a dog that would attack him. He was left outside so he made his way over to my place and didn't leave.
Shion- my mom started feeding what she thought was a very pretty female cat. Ended up being a very pretty male. He's very skittish, almost feral.
Felix- I used to feed as a stray until one day he came in limping and when I took him to the vet it was found out that he'd been shot. His paw was broken and after that he became my cat. He went MIA last March.
Others I've had and lost, Ikki (my 1st cat), Kyo( my 2nd cat), Gregorio aka Goyo(aka Haineko), Felix and Kiba
about turn into a guy
I forgot name of manga the uke is bitch and fall in love with his Customer "seme" and seme give him money for his Services but uke It becomes sad, i think uke just a student but seme businessman and He has a mustache well I'm not sure
about turn into a guy
I'm a girl •-• but my question is, if I were to do a sex change and become a guy but still want to do it with a guy (okay with being uke or seme) does that mean I'm gay to societies eye e.e and still straight somehow cuz I know I'm not into girls. But if I were, would that still make me a lesbian XD even if I physically appear as a dude to society which would make me straight but deep inside I'm still a girl?
Have you ever experienced being caught while reading a hardcore stuff? Graphical/detailed. Like, you were trying so hard to be discreet but somehow fate hates you so much someone still managed to see what was up your sleeves. If yes, please elaborate! If no, how do u hide ur stuff and urself?
about give life advice
I have this one friend who is depressed and honestly I don't really know what to say whenever she talks to me about it. The best way is to just be a listener but when you're chatting with her it's kind of hard to not give a response, isn't it? Tried telling her she should seek professional help but her mom is kind of traditional and doesn't believe that depression is a mental illness.
She told be that lately she's feeling disconnected to some people but I know for the fact that one of the factors is her exclusive group of friends that are really possessive. I want her to know that she is still very much loved and appreciated, and I want her to kind of 'loosen up' with her exclusive group but I don't know how. Can anyone help me?
She told be that lately she's feeling disconnected to some people but I know for the fact that one of the factors is her exclusive group of friends that are really possessive. I want her to know that she is still very much loved and appreciated, and I want her to kind of 'loosen up' with her exclusive group but I don't know how. Can anyone help me?
about first kiss
1) Ze
2) Ten count
3) Renai Ruby no Tadashii Furikata
4) Kuroneko KareshiAmeiro Paradox
5) Seitokaichou ni Chuukoku
6) ameiro paradox
so what is your favorites manga that you will watch it as anime .
for me ( ten count ) *-* can't wait anymore ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ .
2) Ten count
3) Renai Ruby no Tadashii Furikata
4) Kuroneko KareshiAmeiro Paradox
5) Seitokaichou ni Chuukoku
6) ameiro paradox
so what is your favorites manga that you will watch it as anime .
for me ( ten count ) *-* can't wait anymore ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ .
about give life advice
My best friend just recently took the board examination for the 2nd time. When he told his family that it was so hard, harder than the 1st one last year, and he thinks he may not make it again, one of his family members told him to just quit it and just look for another job or study another course. I wasn't able to talk to my friend in those months he was studying because he was so focus about it and he worked his ass off so that he'll pass the exam this time but we're talking about board exam. A lot of people know how hard it is and failing is, unfortunately, part of it.
So yeah, he was so depressed when he told me about it and tbh, if I were him, I would probably get angry to that person and might cut him off in my life because what that person did just create such negativity in one's life. But of course, since it's a family member, I couldn't tell that to my friend since he's very loyal to his family, no matter how they keep letting him down.
I don't know why there are some family members who act like this. Family should support each other. What happened to my friend somehow made me realized why a lot of students commit suicide. Why there are people who would rather die instead of seeking help.
If you were in his position, what will you guys do? What good advice should I give to my friend?
So yeah, he was so depressed when he told me about it and tbh, if I were him, I would probably get angry to that person and might cut him off in my life because what that person did just create such negativity in one's life. But of course, since it's a family member, I couldn't tell that to my friend since he's very loyal to his family, no matter how they keep letting him down.
I don't know why there are some family members who act like this. Family should support each other. What happened to my friend somehow made me realized why a lot of students commit suicide. Why there are people who would rather die instead of seeking help.
If you were in his position, what will you guys do? What good advice should I give to my friend?
about give life advice
I have had feelings for two of my gay friends. The first one 's male and the second is female.
The first:
I've known him since forever. He's actually one of my first friends when I moved to this current location. I've liked him since I was 10 and never told him. I guess that's made me a fool. Even then I must have known that he's not for me. I was more comfortable in the friend zone. I watched him date girls then guys and listened to him as he told me about them. I figured that I still liked him because my heart ached, as he babbled on about this guy and that guy while knowing I would never be the one.
Along the way, once I was in high school, I did date another one of my friends. Things between him and me were not as good as it should have been. I never felt like I had a boyfriend, with him. It felt more like a friendship than dating.
Then came one of my close friend, who is a female like myself. I became friends with her in Senior year of high school. She was like fresh air and the openness of freedom. By the end of Senior year, I fell for her. I think that I loved her since I first laid eyes on her. At the time, I thought I was straight because I was raised in a strict home and I didn't even get a chance to explore. So I didn't allow myself to think about liking the same gender. Being in love with her taught me that it's ok to feel this way towards people even if they are female. Love is love. Even if she and I never got together, she is still one of my close friends. This is my story.
What's yours?
The first:
I've known him since forever. He's actually one of my first friends when I moved to this current location. I've liked him since I was 10 and never told him. I guess that's made me a fool. Even then I must have known that he's not for me. I was more comfortable in the friend zone. I watched him date girls then guys and listened to him as he told me about them. I figured that I still liked him because my heart ached, as he babbled on about this guy and that guy while knowing I would never be the one.
Along the way, once I was in high school, I did date another one of my friends. Things between him and me were not as good as it should have been. I never felt like I had a boyfriend, with him. It felt more like a friendship than dating.
Then came one of my close friend, who is a female like myself. I became friends with her in Senior year of high school. She was like fresh air and the openness of freedom. By the end of Senior year, I fell for her. I think that I loved her since I first laid eyes on her. At the time, I thought I was straight because I was raised in a strict home and I didn't even get a chance to explore. So I didn't allow myself to think about liking the same gender. Being in love with her taught me that it's ok to feel this way towards people even if they are female. Love is love. Even if she and I never got together, she is still one of my close friends. This is my story.
What's yours?
I am a fairly sexual person but recently I have found myself attracted to a person who identifies as ace. Anyone with a similar experience? What is it like dating somebody who is asexual? OK bye!
about penpals
Well, I want to meet more BNHA fans so I decided to create a discord server for it :)
https://discord.gg/Mvj9ap
Feel free to join! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
https://discord.gg/Mvj9ap
Feel free to join! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
want to make friends with other yaoi lovers so i just made a discord recently to create chat rooms please join :)
disclaimer: im not too familiar to discord so we can learn together
https://discord.gg/quGvsk
disclaimer: im not too familiar to discord so we can learn together
https://discord.gg/quGvsk
about confess to your crush
I met a girl on internet and we started talking on WhatsApp. She was younger than me. I was talking with her bc we shared the same hobbies. We talked for 1 year almost everyday. I liked teasing her and all. But then i became busy and stopped talking with her. And yesterday i met a girl who looks so much like her and when i talk to her my heart is beating bc she reminds me of her.And i find myself thinking about her sometimes.Does that mean I liked her but I didnt realize it? Does that make me bi? Im a girl btw
