I know next chapter is gonna be GOOD
Poor girl is prob gonna go through a lot
But she deserves a proper breakup and not that onesided thing
I also think the author did a pretty good job at representing how hard it is to let go of toxic relationships
It's clearly bad, but they've lived through good moments too and at some point he seemed very supportive of her. It's extremely hard to dismiss these good moments and "wake up" to how bad it is in the present
I've seen it happen to close friends and it's frightening how emotional manipulation is so effective
And you can even see he doesn't exactly calculate his actions to be the trash he is
His way of thinking is so warped by preconceived ideas (she doesn't get sick, she's dead inside, she's boring, etc), and he's also so self centered that his trashness comes very naturally
That's why toxic people can also convince others (who aren't close enough to know what really goes on), that the victim is "crazy", sure they may lie to cover their ass, but they also believe lots of stuff they say
I have no idea how he's gonna react to her not being "his" anymore
But it's probably gonna be bad
I love "crack treated seriously" stories
Also
Did they say "puppy"??
That huge guy is still a kid???
He def shouldn't bee seeing any of this then
some dog breeds are like that, they're huge af but when you ask for their age their just still babies lol
I usually don't agree when people try to put two characters together when it wasn't the author's intention
It feels forced when what they share is a close relationship of platonic nature, but nothing even close to romance
That being said
These two were definitely in love with each other in every sense of love lol
Platonic, romantic, familial (in the sense that they felt so familiar to each other, very close by proximity) and accepted each other's virtues and flaws without harmful envy or blind devotion
I really like Angel, but that poor guy doesn't stand a chance against the absolute and undeniable connection between emi and remilia
This is a great story, but it would've been exceptional if it endes with the two of them together (as in a romantic relationship)
Lol
Veramood forgot that Sigrid accepted his proposal
I think she's waiting for the ring (￣∇￣")
This might either sway grandpa and dad to complete approve Perez (he is showing he's not afraid to sacrifice his life for Tia)
Or it might make them oppse their "engagement" strongly bc he might be the one who put her in danger in the first place (if the assasins were sent for him and Tia got caught in the fire)
It all depends one who they targeting I guess
Nah up to the end they're not technically approve the marriage of course not because they dont like Perez but they dont like giving Tia to another guy XD
And they had no choice but to approve since something surprisingly happened.hahaha
I was just theorizing, not asking for spoilers
You know what?
I'm not hating this jin guy
He's the type of character who's too fickle and not that evil to stick to a plan
He's just really petty and self centered with an ego the size of a peanut lol
But I like that we as an audience can see through him very clearly, meaning his "machinations" are very straightforward
He never even thought of doing something sinister to "get rid" of the mc, I don't think he even had to lie hard about andante's past
He probably was a cold jerk who slept around and was only interested in transactional relationships with guides
The lies were definitely about andante's interest in jin
Huh
Of all kinks I'd never imagine THIS one would trigger the comment section lol
Maybe I've been on the internet for too long, but this was so tame in levels of "embarrassing"
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AHAHAAHAHHAAHA
This is hilarious
They're gonna be locked in a never ending self sacrificing loop
All these people and nobody holds down the evil dude??
Ikr it doesn't make sense. Lippe's father was stepping on him. How did he even get away?
Did you know that when you say "I'll never be like my parents, who did x y z"
You may, inadvertently, end up actually copying them?
Maybe not exactly, but the mechanism behind it will be the same.
Let's say your parents used to get really angry in a discussion, scream, curse, slam doors, basically do anything but admit they're wrong or address the issue
You may think "they were horrible, I never wanna be like that"
But then, when there's a discussion, you get real quiet, give the other person the cold silence treatment, go out without letting the other know when/if you're coming back. Objectively you're still avoiding addressing the conflict exactly like your parents, but you're "disguising" it in a different way.
Same mechanism, different ways to emulate it.
Why am I saying all this?
Bc this comment section has been filled with uncomfortable comments in my opinion
Of people saying kids deserve get beaten the crap out of them, that "it worked on them" and they've "survived"
Dude
You're all just copying and pasting your parents, exactly like this spoiled kid
When you're this small, you don't understand why exactly people do what they do, and you just wanna be included and be validated
Now if you, a (supposed) mature adult, has no chill and no level headness to deal with a dumb kid, to the point you have to physically harm them to assert authority, then you're just creating another person who doesn't know how to deal with their emotions and resorts to violence or other unhealthy coping mechanisms when being overwhelmed
I know it seems I'm taking it too seriously, maybe I am, but this topic is not a joke to me
Being beaten did not help me become a better person, not even learn discipline, it only taught me that I shouldn't show my mistakes to my parents and that they don't know how to deal with conflict (which is true to this day, even when they're beyond their 50s)
I hope the author shows how to actually deal with spoiled kids and I hope it doesn't involve humiliating or physically harming this kid over and over
I accidently put thumbs down. But thanks for the message! I am also trying to change my ways and not follow the path of my parents. It's hard, but I see a bright future!
Thanks for this perspective. It’s good to learn the cognitive root to our actions. Why do I do this like that? Why do I react to that like this? Why do those things make me feel this way? If you don’t figure yourself out by the time you’re 35 years old, you’ll just be living by habit of reactions.
I totally agree with this, physical punishment usually never leads to productive teachings for children. It just leads to children creating unhealthy behaviors, habits, or defense mechanisms for themselves. Having an emotionally/physically turbulent childhood may also affect them as adults if not properly addressed. I am really interested to know your perspective on how she handled Jace’s situation? It was a very round about and honestly mentally fatiguing/potentially traumatizing way of “correcting” the child. Do you think there could have been a better way to handle it or do you think this was a “good” last resort set up? I did believe that Jace’s behavior should be corrected before he hurt more people, especially after he threw a vase at the maid but i found myself questioning the mc’s method at times. Sorry if im asking a lot of questions, i’ve always been interested in child development and I liked your perspective. I wanted to now what you thought of this, If it’s not too inconvenient for you.
Oh, I did find the mc using Mirinae concerning. The whole set up was a bit grandeur and there was definitely unnecessary fatigue for people who shouldn’t have been involved, like Mirinae.